Quote from: tekla on May 25, 2009, 12:50:54 PM
Oh my god Karen, there are people in these BBs that would go absolutely apesh*t crazy with anything that came even close to a suggestion that they were some kind of 'third' gender.
...And I can think of several current and former members of Susans who would be part of that contingent.
I want those of us who are trans to have equality, to have real political power to prevent being fired or not hired just because we're trans, to not be denied the opportunity for the housing we'd prefer and can afford just because the landlord doesn't rent/lease to 'our kind, to be able to deflate our bladders in the appropriate restroom without shame or being shamed (or run out, or arrested,) to not have our assaults, beatings and murders de facto condoned by society.
I don't like the idea of being pigeonholed as a third sex. I do like the idea of being (anonymously) counted, even if the stealth-at-all-costs members or our community guarantee a significant undercount that is prohibited from fixing through statistical adjustment.
If we're going to achieve equality, we have to gain sufficient visibility.
=K