After searching google a bit I ran across this site. Having watched some videos online with TS involvement, I find myself very interested. So, I thought this would be a good place to get some information. At least short of the online ads for people in my area. Anyway, I've always found myself very attracted to women. After watching some TS adult clips I found myself very arroused. I'm not sure if this is normal for a 'straight' guy. I have absolutely zero attraction to men. The whole 'very feminine' TS really interests me. Do you guys/gals on this forum see this kind of behavior often?

Welcome to Susan's.

An important thing to remember is that the TS world is not like your adult clips. It shouldn't matter your orientation because MTF(male to females) transition to be viewed as females, not males. So no, it's not strange for a straight male to feel attracted to an MTF.

This isn't a dating site.  If you're here to learn more about what transsexuality is and isn't, you're in the right place.  If you're looking to hook up with a transwoman, this isn't the place.  Not that there aren't a bunch of lovely women here, because there are; but they're women, not objects for your arousal.  Transwomen are NOT MEN.


Jay

Sorry for the confusion on my part if I presented myself in the manner that I assumed this was a dating site. The reason I registered is for information so I can see what the TS world is like and about. I will be honest in saying that I would like to eventually meet a pre-op TS but I'm scared at this point. I looked over ads on craigslist (only place I know to look) and it seems like there are a bunch of men CD's stating they are 'real TS'. I do have some questions regarding some things related to what I've seen in some TS related movies. Is this the right place for those questions?

Quote from: tt95gt on June 11, 2009, 08:32:37 AM
I do have some questions regarding some things related to what I've seen in some TS related movies. Is this the right place for those questions?

Won't know until you ask.

Hello tt95gt,

Like Jessica said.  Us transwomen are just that women.  Nothing more, nothing less.  For me, my journey is still on going and will end one day at SRS.  If you treat us with respect and dignity, you will be welcomed.   You can ask your questions, but be advised that....A. We are not a dating site, we are a support site.  B. I am just one of many administrator here and we have many moderators also.  We watch over this site for trolls and the ones that should go elsewhere.   C, The guys here protect us girls as if they were our big brothers, which many are, as we are a family.

Ask anything.  We will do our best to answer them.  So ask away.

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Quote from: tt95gt on June 11, 2009, 08:32:37 AM
Sorry for the confusion on my part if I presented myself in the manner that I assumed this was a dating site. The reason I registered is for information so I can see what the TS world is like and about. I will be honest in saying that I would like to eventually meet a pre-op TS but I'm scared at this point. I looked over ads on craigslist (only place I know to look) and it seems like there are a bunch of men CD's stating they are 'real TS'. I do have some questions regarding some things related to what I've seen in some TS related movies. Is this the right place for those questions?

Welcome tt95gt!

There's an understandable sensitivity with many folks here, as you may have noticed, because a lot of guys don't understand what it means to be a gender dysphoric girl and sometimes blunder inadvertently into a faux pas.

You won't be able to send personal messages until you've got a few posts under your belt but once you're able to send them, feel free to contact me if you want to double-check on the appropriateness of a question/issue.  I'm a natural male who is dating a MtF girl, so I understand what I didn't understand at the beginning, if you follow me

In the meantime, ask away but be aware that the girls identify as girls, so use appropriate respectful vocabulary and you'll be just fine!

Good luck - and if your quest is to learn more, well good for you.