Hi, im new and i am a closet ->-bleeped-<-. I just wanted to introduce myself. I am not the stereotypical MTF admirer. It is fun to challenge stereotypes.

Hi ->-bleeped-<-
Not sure what a closet ->-bleeped-<- is!
But welcome this is a nice forum with nice people so post and enjoy.
Cindy

Welcome ->-bleeped-<-. Pull up a chair, chat. As long as you realize we are not a dating site, we're cool. 

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Janet

hi all, thanks for your replys, i am drunk at the moment and now i am out the closet as some of the girls caught me looking at a ts woman tonight. I do have one question are all you ts women just into men, or do some of you like women. Im unusual as i have at times questioned my own gender, sometimes i have felt like i am really a feminine man in a womans body, other times it is like i have both a masculine and feminine aspect, women tend not to be attracted to me, but men do, i am drawn to ts women more then i am to ciswomen, i also seem to click with people who cross gender. I do not think i would be as open as this if i was not drunk.

tell me i am mad if you think that is what i am, i like honesty. I hope i am not hung over tommorrow as i wanted to go down the gym. I like to keep fit.

XXX

Hi

Hello ->-bleeped-<-,

It is entirely possible to be a "really feminine man in a woman's body" as you put it. Gender, identity and sexuality are more varied than most people realize, and they can combine in some very unique ways. Gender has more to do with who you are, while sexuality or sexual orientation has more to do with who you are attracted to. You really can be extremely feminine, identify as male and physically be female, and as long as you are comfortable with things that way, you are as normal as you need to be. If those different parts are in conflict because one part does not seem to fit, and you have to act in a manner that does not feel natural in order to fit in, then you might need help with gender and sexuality issues.

To finish answering your first question, transwomen can be straight, bi, lesbian or other; the unique thing about transpeople is that they may start out with one orientation but change orientation as a consequence of transitioning. It is tends to come as a surprise.