Hi boys

On the topic of rings, I bought an emerald/white sapphire ring set in a floral pattern around a year and a half ago. Unfortunately, I can't wear it because it's 10k and irritates me badly. But I wore it for a while. I got it because it was gorgeous, I like emerald, sometimes like flowers, and felt like it was 'turning over a new leaf.'
Wearing high heeled boots has gotten me compliments. Blouses have gotten me compliments. Changing my eyebrows. Long nails got me envy and compliments.
Wearing a ring freaked people the hell out. The only time, ever, a customer directly stated 'I'm not sure if you're wanting to become a woman, or what' (though to her credit, she was a nice, if eccentric older lady who I talked to for some time afterwards. I didn't out myself, but we talked about various things and fashion. She said "I can't understand people if I don't ask questions, so I ask questions." If I hadn't been at work I probably would have had a very different talk with her.)
I recently came out to a friend, who told me that she never really saw my clothes as feminine or gay, just 'an intelligent man who took care of himself, except for when you were wearing the ring.'
I kept telling people 'It's a ring. It's just a ring. Really, it's a ring. Jewelry. Made of stones and metal that are shiny. It's JUST A RING.'
Part of the reason I stopped wearing it was because it got tiring.