Quote from: Nero on August 11, 2006, 08:24:38 PM
Hello Inga.
I'm tresspassing in the SO section, but thought I might extend a welcome anyhow.
I'm Nero, an FTM like Gregori.
Welcome and pleased to meet you.
Nero
Thank you Nero. I have appreciated reading your posts and I appreciate the welcome. You seem such a nice man.
Quote from: Bob on August 11, 2006, 08:37:42 PM
Welcome Inga !
I am Father to a TS thats why I am here, to lend a hand in helping to understand Fathers ! hehehehehe a tall order no doubt !
I understand why you hide your pain from Gregori but in the truest sense this is not a real good plan of action... you need to comunicate your feelings with your TS partner
yes they have problems of their own, but without comunication a wedge can devolip between you and drive you appart, its not an easy road for eather you or your partner... but comunication and lots of it make it easier !
Remember, "Comunication is the Key to staying togather!" if you stop comunicateing you start seperateing...
thats how I look at it anyway !
There are many here that can help you learn and share your burden, some have already been through it and others are doing the same thing you are going through now , so you are not alone. you've come to the right place ! so welcome !
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Bob..........
Wow! How refreshing to see a Father here! Gregori and I do have lots of communication and we do discuss things to a big degree, it's just when my heart's breaking I try to keep it from him. Gregori hates hurting anyone, and while HE is not hurting me, the pain he lives does. It's not him, it's just life. Still, he blames himself for it... Kinda like it's his problem so it's his fault. It's not true though... it's OUR problem and I'm not going anywhere. We talk a lot. Sometimes Gregori thinks I talk TOO much.
Quote from: MarcosGirl on August 11, 2006, 09:05:33 PM
Inga,
It's good to see you back here! I'm glad you came back. My advice would be not to hide you pain too much because that is not healthy for you. Although, maybe it is best in order to support Gregori to be strong around him, but make sure that you use this site as a resource to vent your pain. There are so many great supportive people here that have great words of wisdom to offer. There are people here that have probably "been there done that" that can give great advice.
Hang in there and check back here often. We're one big happy family!!
Pam
Oh Pam it's so nice to see you again. As soon as I get time I want to read to see all that's happened with you and Marco since last I was here. Thank you for the welcome!
Quote from: Tinkerbell on August 11, 2006, 09:23:25 PM
Hello Inga!
Welcome to Susan's!
Okay boys and girls, we have to tell our SO's to join Susan's!
I'm glad you joined Inga; we look forward to your post and ideas!!!
tinkerbell 
I think I'll be posting a good bit. Thank you so much.
Quote from: Gregori on August 12, 2006, 06:43:14 AM
I was looking for something elegant for my Lady Inga, however, I did not want to overwhelm the forum with a large image.
Hence, I have selected one that suits the sentiment. Also it should be one perfect red rosebud and I should be impecabbly groomed when I present it. However, it is the sentiment.
My Lady Inga, on bended knee...
Oh Gregori, That's really beautiful, but you're all I need and want. I want to see you happy and self assured. I love you.
Posted at: August 12, 2006, 07:32:20 PM
Thank you Emerald! I work nights and usually am getting ready to go to work around the time most chats are scheduled but I'll look to see if there are any I can come to and will definitely find you on my nights off
