Where would you recommend getting a medical spoon at? Any medical supply store? Has anyone found that latex or silicon tubing works better than the other? I'm not allergic to latex, so that wouldn't be a problem. Also, I typically wear boxer briefs, and though I've been living as a man for nearly a decade, have never used a packy. They aren't super tight on me, but aren't as loose as boxer shorts either. What do you guys use to keep them in place? I'd rather do without a harness or jockstrap, so if needed I could switch to regular briefs to keep it snug. I appreciate the help, I can't wait to piss in a urinal!