Hi Kate. Sounds like you are doing wonderfully at 9 weeks. I have been full time since last Sept. and had many morning melt downs getting ready. It's hard to believe now, however, because it all just comes very naturally, and as the other people have stated, getting out and interacting, just living makes it all come together. I just got back from a week at Disney World, and it was fantastic. And, spent my first day at Put-in-Bay (in Lake Erie-a very busy Island) as Arlene. I was called a "cougar" by one of the entertainers, and loved it. Just keep on keeping on as they say. And, I'll add to that group HUGG!