To disclose or not to disclose

http://www.examiner.com/x-16330-Philadelphia-Transgendered-Relationships-Examiner~y2009m7d9-To-disclose-or-not-to-disclose
Joe Ippolito
7//9/09

Disclosing to a potential dating partner can be an anxiety producing experience for many "passing" transgender people. Passing is the ability to present oneself as a gender other than one assigned at birth and to live in an unrecognizable state in society as this new gender.

Just a thought, it says to disclose in someplace private. I think if the place is too private, you may end up dead.