how to i pick like my female name. cause im clueless and im already bad at names anyway

ask your mom what she planned to name you.

Female singers, movie and TV stars, models, characters in Literature, from the classics, goddesses from antiquity, heroines from antiquity, modern heroines, girls you knew, girls you didn't know

Or just find a list...

The 3000+ most common female names in the United States in order
http://names.mongabay.com/female_names.htm

What girls names mean
http://www.babynameshq.com/femalebabynames.html

Common names translated to Elvish
http://www.arwen-undomiel.com/elvish/girlnames.html

i was adopted lol so they kind of knew i was a boy (or so they thought)

There is no set way to pick a name hun. You can narrow it down a little based on a few things. Such as, look at the names that start with the same letter as your current one. You can google "what do names mean?" and pick one that means what you like it to mean. If you didn't know, Vanessa means butterfly, from ancient Greek, stemming from Phanessa, the Greek goddess  . Or you can just ask everyone to suggest names and pick one that sounds right to you. Anyways, hope this helps. Big hug!

well i was thinking my birth mother wanted to name me jesse... so maybe jessica... but idk maybe if people put suggestions it would help me

Chose something that matches your initials. Go on the net and look up names for babies. My birth name is Eldred Gene Slagowski. There is no way to make anything feminine out of that. Eldreda? Nor even! That is a name BTW. Gene became Genevieve. Slagowski became Swann. Eldred will become Eva if ever needed. Some of my sisters at flickr helped out. Looking up baby names for girls is probably the easiest. You can find names from many different countries. French and Latina names are very femme.

ok so mine is JFS the F is going away for sure but so like...
Jessica... blank... S_____? lol how do i come up with a last name

Well, I don't want to sound like such a party pooper (don't give me that look!  ), but is there anything wrong with your current last name hun? Last names are a lot broader than first names and tend to be gender neutral (a few exceptions of course).

my family hates me and wants me exorcised and so like... i dont think itd be that great to keep the last name

Scott,Sands,Sabina,Shelley,Spears,Steele,Styles,Summers...

Jessica Sytles?  Jessica Shelley?    Jessica Summers sounds nice. Jessica Steele, Sounds like a KGB agent.

steele... hmm i kind of like it  but i want to explore all my options.. im googling it too btw so like of course im doing my part but it helps alot when others give me suggestions

Jessica Starr     Jessica Stardust   Jessica Simpson, Bart's sister.  Jessica Serena   

serena means mermaid in spanish.

mmm Serena. sounds hot.

that sounds like a first name nero i need a last.. and maybe a middle im debating on Lynn or something else for a middle

Jessica Satin   Jessica Saphire    Too bad you're dropping the middle because  Fawn is cute.  Jessica Fawn _______? Fawn sounds femme and pettite.

Is there anything that has meaning to you, or meaning in your life?  Try those names.

nothing that starts with an S and the middle is still open

How about just an S for a middle name. You can tell people it means whatever you want.

i dont need an initial lol i need a full name
Jessica ____ S____