Like K8 said earlier, except for this, but in a very specific sense:
Quote2) The name should not peg you in some particular category.
Perhaps it should: if the name is something that is normal for someone of your target gender, about your age and in your culture, it's that much easier to blend in after transition. It doesn't have to be one of the top five names, just something that doesn't sound odd enough to raise too many eyebrows. Present-day baby name books may not be the best choice, as popularity often comes and goes -- your own high school yearbooks are a better source.
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