i haven't been on in a while because I'm STUCK. I have been searching high and low for a therapist that is at least somewhat close to where i live...so in the meantime, i've been super depressed and when i would get on here, i would become sooooo pissed at seeing others that were moving forward. (is that typical?) and i hated feeling that way so i decided it would be better to stay away for a while. this is the first time i've been on in like a month and a half.

and guess what? i may be getting myself unstuck. i found a place online that does e-mail sessions that i can afford. so i am now waiting for their reply to see if they can write me refernce letters. so yeah!!! i'm coming back. i have really missed relating to ya'll...it just feels so great to remember i'm not alone.

I hope those sessions go well then.

Good luck with it all mate!

I know the one Nero used was able to write letters for hm.
Good Luck, nice to see something positive happening for you!
Myles

Hey kody you're not alone here cause I've been completely stuck for a few months now. I have a therapist but no way to get T myself and he won't be writing a letter anytime soon so I'm really on a standstill. I'm soo jealous of you guys on T.. man

That's awesome. I wish you the best of luck. And you can do it by email? I'm going to have to look into that. . .

SilverFang

That's brilliant that you may have found someone to help, well done!

And most of the guys here probably understand the whole "stuck" thing, and the jealousy at seeing others making progress while being left behind (not that it's some competition or anything). I tend to get...not pissed off, just angsty, but it sort of inspires me, too, to keep going, knowing and seeing that these changes that we ourselves want to make are possible, and survivable, and that you're not alone with what you're going through.

Well done again for getting yourself unstuck, hope it all goes well for you.

i think i just wasted forty bucks... they still haven't got back with me and it's been three days. the info said two days...this sucks!!!