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Rule 15

Started by Susan, September 10, 2009, 07:23:45 PM

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Susan

I have changed the language of rule 15 from

QuoteYou may challenge the issue, but never the person

to


QuoteItems under discussion shall be confined to the subject matter at hand, and members shall avoid taking it personal, or personally
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Chaunte

I like the rewording.
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Robyn

May I suggest a slight clarification? 

Is this what you mean???

"Items under discussion shall be confined to the subject matter at hand, and members shall avoid taking them personally or making them personal attacks."
When we walk to the edge of all the light we have and take the step into the darkness of the unknown, we must believe that one of two things will happen. There will be something solid for us to stand on or we will be taught to fly. — Patrick Overton
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Susan

I was trying to make it clever, here's the new version.

15. Items under discussion shall be confined to the subject matter at hand, members shall avoid taking the other users posts personally, and/or posting anything that can reasonably be construed as a personal attack.
Susan Larson
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Susan's Place Transgender Resources

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finewine

If you disagree, attack the argument - not the individual.  A sensible policy.  Not taking things personally is sound advice but visceral reactions are just that - it's the reaction caused by taking things personally one wants to avoid ... but that brings us back to the original tenet: attack the argument, not the individual.

Anyhoo, whatever the wording, it's the right intent.  Mind you, aside from a few chilli peppers, this crowd seems less fractious than some I've encountered :)
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Miniar




"Everyone who has ever built anywhere a new heaven first found the power thereto in his own hell" - Nietzsche
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Sandy

It's a good rule, but sad that we even have to say it in any form.

I understood it in the old format, I'm curious to know why it was re-worded?

-Sandy
Out of the darkness, into the light.
Following my bliss.
I am complete...
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Susan

Quote from: Sandy on September 11, 2009, 08:24:31 AM
It's a good rule, but sad that we even have to say it in any form.

I understood it in the old format, I'm curious to know why it was re-worded?

-Sandy

It's a slight modification of a rule used by the House of Representatives. I liked it's wording better.
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