I go too this forum it is not a hate site and there are a number of nice people there.  However most of the males are completely open about their hatred of transsexuals.  Below is just a small representative sample of the abuse I get. (I am LB btw).


  GodIsAMan
Post subject: Why won't MsL-B answer my question?
Posted: Sun Sep 06, 2009 1:48 am



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Why do you pretend to be a woman?

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JebusCribbins
Post subject: Re: Alone
Posted: Thu Sep 03, 2009 6:33 am



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It's funny that when the freak dies, nobody's going to be at his funeral. Not even Mel Gibson.

Nick
Post subject: Re: Really Funny Friends Clip
Posted: Wed Sep 02, 2009 11:34 pm


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Who cares LB you ->-bleeped-<-ing poo pirate


JebusCribbins
Post subject: Re: Really Funny Friends Clip
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LOL. Nick hates that Scottish ->-bleeped-<-got.

JebusCribbins
Post subject: Re: Mens' Rights
Posted: Mon Aug 31, 2009 11:12 pm



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MsL-B wrote:
Oilersfan_in_ns wrote:
What 'Men's Rights' are depends on who you talk to. The most common themes in the Men's Rights Movement, however are:

fairness in the Courts (esp. Family Law); anti-affirmative action; equality in all aspects of society with women (including both rights and responsibilities).


[You will need to be more specific Mark. Start by defining your terms, your post contained a number of words that need defining vis a vis mens' rights. Give examples of what you mean by 'fairness', in what ways are the Courts unfair to men at present? Your half sentence 'equality in all aspects of society with women',strongly implies that men at present are inferior to women, give examples of this please.

Mark I suspect that you want to live in the '50s, where you go out to work each day and your wife stays at home cooking and cleaning and raising the children. That is the reason you go on about mens' rights. You are offended that men can no longer be the nobody at work but king in his own home. You feel that not only are you a nobody socially, but with womens' liberation you men can't lord it at home anymore. Also, many men resent deeply having to compete with women for jobs and promotions.] My Comments.



Where do you live? What's your address? I'm very interested in meeting you.

Full-Monty
Post subject: Re: Mens' Rights
Posted: Tue Sep 01, 2009 6:11 pm


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"Dumb. Just like any Christian knows, you are suppose to spread the word of God, but let others see for themselves. You are not to try to impose your will on others, through harassment - (even though that's what I do - "do as I say, don't do as I do." It's in the Bible. Trust me.) because everyone knows, if you try harassing people, it will most likely have an adverse effect (and that's where IhateMen's Vegetta went wrong, cuz he didn't know his Bible.) You only try for so long, and you move along - since others may be more easy to manipulate, and one can not stay in one place too long. Obviously you will never care about mens' rights, (and I'm DEAD serious here LB in that I don't know where transexuals fit into all this. Never looked into what rights they even have, except your Basic Human Rights. I don't know if courts would consider you a man or woman in family law.. Probably a man, since courts don't pretend in the end, like your "friend"....jane.) so there's no point in speaking to you about them any longer. The Lake of fire isn't pretty LB. Demons and ->-bleeped-<- flying around. And your faory-princess ass couldn't out-fly them. Wings of fire would burn your wings, and as you make your descent into the molten lava, you will ask yourself "Why didn't I listen to Monty?"

JebusCribbins
Post subject: Re: Mens' Rights
Posted: Wed Sep 02, 2009 11:08 am

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MsL-B wrote:
Poor Mark he is a pathetic shadow of the Mark that I knew at IHM. AA if she were here wouldn't even bother talking to you.

None of the so-called Mens' rights activists here can explain exactly what rights men want from society. They can only give generalised accounts. Perhaps Mark can scratch his head, pace up and down his room, and dig deep and come up with some concrete demands?
I want to see a bullet point list of the major demands of the Mens' rights movement. I will start you off. What does the MRM think of abortion? What is their stance on divorce, and what changes would they like to see enacted and implemented?

LB: What rights do men want?
Mark: We want rights for men!
LB: Yes you have said that before, but give me specific examples.
Mark: Err.
LB: Yes?
Mark: Umm (long pause) err, we want umm...err(Mark looks long and hard at his feet and falls silent).
LB: Mark what about abortion, what does the MRM think of that?
Mark: Well...err some men are against abortion, while some err are for it, and others say it depends upon individual circumstances.
LB: So the MRM has no concrete policy on abortion, and some might say that the MRM is hopelessly divided on abortion.
Mark:Err, umm...(Mark speaks in a barely audible whisper) yeah.
LB: Please speak up Mark I didn't hear that last word.
Mark:(angry and almost shouting) I said "yes"!!
LB:What is the MRM's stance on divorce Mark?
Mark:(Mark feels relieved he is now on firmer ground) We want bitches to stop divorcing us and claiming child support from the fathers of their children!! Men should be able to divorce bitches, and not the other way around, and men also want the legal right to pay child support only if they want to. However, most men will probably want to pay something towards supporting their children. We at the MRM think $10.00USD a week is a reasonable sum.
LB:(Shocked by the barely concealed misogny lurking at the heart of the MRM: replies) First of all Mark the word is women and not bitches. Second if a man fathers a child he must provide adequate social, emotional, and financial support for his children until they are 18.
Mark:(dancing about and shouting) I hate bitches, I have always hated bitches! There I have said it!! It feels so good not to hide my virulent misogny any longer behind a false mask of mens' rights!!!
LB:(A little taken aback, but not entirely surprised by this outburst) Mark please change your ways. If you don't you will be one of those men who always smells of pee, you will have green teeth and and be dirty and dishevelled. You will die a lonely and toothless old man. They probably won't find your body for weeks.
Mark:(still dancing jubilantly and oblivious to LB's warnings) I hate bitches, I hate bitches...

[LB shakes her head and walks away]


This is an interview between JebusCribbins and LB:

Jebus: Hi, LB. Good to have you here. How do you feel about no longer having a penis?
LB: You are a horrible little boy
Jebus: Ok, but how do you feel about not having a penis?
LB: It is past your bed time
Jebus: It's 11 AM. But OK, we'll try a different question: Do you believe you're a woman now, even though your chromosomes are XY, you have no womb, clitoris, fallopian tube etc. You have an Adam's apple, and your 'vagina' is basically just an imploded penis?
LB: I think sugar is bad for you and I don't like to leave my home.
Jebus: When did you first begin deluding yourself that you were a girl?

JebusCribbins
Post subject: Re: Mens' Rights
Posted: Thu Sep 03, 2009 6:11 am

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G.I. Jane wrote:
Quote:
You are a terrible spider


That made me crack up. Terrible spider, what the hell???


LB is a lame sack of ->-bleeped-<-.

JebusCribbins
Post subject: Re: Jem
Posted: Thu Sep 03, 2009 6:04 am

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Boring. Just die.

JebusCribbins
Post subject: Re: Jeebus the Spider
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I hope LB gets cancer behind his eyeballs.

JebusCribbins
Post subject: Re: Jeebus the Spider
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Don't care. I don't like him and I'm not in a good mood.


JebusCribbins
Post subject: He vs she
Posted: Wed Sep 02, 2009 10:00 am

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People who call LB 'he' vs people who call LB 'she'

The 'he' camp:

Jebus
FM
GodIsAMan
Everlast (??)
Mark (??)

The 'she' camp:

KSO(Rarely used 'she', no longer posts)
Nos
Jane
Blun
nate
jem(Left months ago)
David (left months ago)

JebusCribbins
Post subject: Re: He vs she
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I call him 'he' because a man with no penis =/= a woman


JebusCribbins
Post subject: Re: Mirror Slammy
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I remember that time I did a voice impression of you. Haha, I ->-bleeped-<-ing owned you.

The truth is you're just a boring Scottish cross-dressing queer with no penis.

JebusCribbins
Post subject: I destroyed the Jew like I destroyed KSO
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They're both gone now and probably dead. Next on my list is LB.

I'm going to purify the forum.





Yes I know some of you will be thinking why continue posting at this forum if they hate people like us so much?  I have been going there and its predecessor forums for five years now and I have a number of close friends there and I determined that these haters are not going to drive me away.  However, it is getting hard to ignore the poster called 'Jebus Cribbins' as he follows me around constantly making insulting and threatening posts aimed at me. 
Around 90% of the males at this forum decided quite a while ago to never to use the terms  'she' or 'her' with reference to me.  They told me that they would only use the terms 'him' and 'his' when writing about me.
  Many people have severe problems coping with and understanding transsexuals, and I think that
all the above comments make that very clear.
 
I just wonder how many people are nice to our faces and loathe us in private?

Personally, I would not go to that forum.

However, if you choose to stay, report those messages to the site administrator. They should not tolerate blatant hate on their site. If they do, you really have no other recourse but to leave.

The internet is flypaper for morons which is why it seems (possibly correctly) that the world is predominantly populated by idiotic ->-bleeped-<-s.

It was trivially easy to find the forum you're referring to using the supplied information and it's not a very impressive sight - or site!  Seems to be a fair amount of race hatred in there too.  Perhaps you should rethink the company you keep?

simple emoticon for your idiot people on the not so friendly forum    ,.!..


Janet

If I was talking face to face with people who insulted me I would walk away. If I was, accidently, on a forum where people insulted me, I would leave.

As finewine pointed out the internet has become a haven for the maladjusted freaks. Just look at the number of paedophiles that are getting caught, and think of how many aren't.

Cindy

Why would you continue to post there?

What on earth are you doing hanging out on a forum like that? You aren't going to change their minds and just give more fuel for their hate.  I say come hang out here more often.

I have a motto: Never let other people's negativity affect how you live. I wouldn't post there and much of the responses I just read aren't worthy of one.

Gennee

Quote from: gennee on September 06, 2009, 12:54:27 PM
I have a motto: Never let other people's negativity affect how you live. I wouldn't post there and much of the responses I just read aren't worthy of one.

Gennee

I so agree, Gennee.  A friend always says "Do Not Let Them Rent Space In Your Head."


Janet

You have nothing to loose and everything to gain - Walk away.

-={LR}=-

I forgot to mention that we can block other members at this forum which is what I do for most of the time.  I think that those hateful posters' comments just got to me last week.
There are good points to being a member at that forum.  The admin' has always classified me as female and the genetic women there have no problem with me, in fact I have complete access to the hidden 'Women Only' board, so things aren't too bad.
  I once posted at a forum where all the other women were writing 'yeah you are a total girl' and they were happy to use 'she' and 'her' in reference to me, but I was not allowed access to the private Women's Board there.  I never questioned this, because I didn't want to risk losing the acceptance that I had there. At this forum the GGs don't say one thing to my face and another behind my back. I think that we as transsexuals should not limit ourselves to TS forums etc.  I like posting at forums where there are genetic women.  I am very grateful for their acceptance of me. 
I think if I left I would be letting down the other women there.  It isn't just me they attack they go for anyone or any group they dislike.  I think these silly boys are actually more to be pitied than despised.  They seem to actively hate everyone and everything.   

Wow, that's so sad.

Quote from: Stephanie on September 11, 2009, 05:41:20 PM
I forgot to mention that we can block other members at this forum which is what I do for most of the time.  I think that those hateful posters' comments just got to me last week.
There are good points to being a member at that forum.  The admin' has always classified me as female and the genetic women there have no problem with me, in fact I have complete access to the hidden 'Women Only' board, so things aren't too bad.
  I once posted at a forum where all the other women were writing 'yeah you are a total girl' and they were happy to use 'she' and 'her' in reference to me, but I was not allowed access to the private Women's Board there.  I never questioned this, because I didn't want to risk losing the acceptance that I had there. At this forum the GGs don't say one thing to my face and another behind my back. I think that we as transsexuals should not limit ourselves to TS forums etc.  I like posting at forums where there are genetic women.  I am very grateful for their acceptance of me. 
I think if I left I would be letting down the other women there.  It isn't just me they attack they go for anyone or any group they dislike.  I think these silly boys are actually more to be pitied than despised.  They seem to actively hate everyone and everything.

I post at a ton of message boards with all kinds of men and women posting there, and I don't have to put up with that kind of constant bating and hatred.  There's one forum I post at where there's a guy who sometimes likes to bring up that I'm trans, but the board is mostly friends of mine from real life, so it's to his detriment, plus I usually just make fun of him.  He is basically just mad because he was in love with me, and I didn't really care.  So he pretty much just plays himself out.

But in general just because you post on a message board, and are out, doesn't mean you have to be subjected to that kind of treatment.

I don't know that a secret "women's only" section of the board is really all that interesting.  One of the boards I posted at had one of those, and it was dead.

Also I don't see why you'd be more happy about acceptance from GGs than any other group.  They are just people miss.  And whether they approve or disaprove of you, that's a judgement on them, not you.  Hold your head up and expect better treatment from the world.  That's the only way you'll start to really recieve it.

... annnnnd that's why I don't mention a damn thing about being trans on message boards. Other than here, or anonymously.

QuoteThe internet is flypaper for morons which is why it seems (possibly correctly) that the world is predominantly populated by idiotic ->-bleeped-<-s.

"Hee, hee, hee." I like that one, it pretty well covers all the bases for the entire planet. 

But to tell the truth Stephanie hon, I can not understand why you found it necessary to tell anyone on any message boards that you are Trans?

I am a member of, actually I lost count, somewhere around 20 different groups and only one is a Trans group and that would be this one.

I go into those other groups as who I truly am,  Cindy, Female, sometimes even give out my age and the province and country I live in and that's all they need to know about my personal life. The groups I go to are well supervised with a minimum of riff-raff, ->-bleeped-<-s and ->-bleeped-<- disturbers. But you do get them even in the best of groups.

My friends are a mixture of both males and females and they refer to me with the proper gender and the proper name for that is who I am and that is who I have been presenting as for the past ten years.

Cindy

I never liked hateful people. Now I have met someone that has opened my eyes. She is a super model in my opinion.even without make up.

Ah, people who are lower then the S*** on the bottom of my shoes. Don't you just love them? Karma is a bitch and they will feel it hard for such weak words. If there is a hell, they will burn. And I will laugh, as I watch from the thrown of hell.

I think this is useful so we are reminded there are a lot of idiots out there.  And when you give them anonymity, their prejudice shines through.  Sometimes I think we tend to believe the world thinks better of us than it does.  And that's leaves us unprepared when we meet hate face to face.

Keep your friends close.  Keep your enemies closer.

Julie

PS: I was a member at a forum where they had a special GG section.  Even if you were fully transitioned the owner would not let you access that section because you were not "genuine".  Talk about prejudice!  And yes, I left, but more because the owner let the GGs get away with anything.

I personally would not revisit the site. I have only once been the victim of that sort of hatred. A guy at flickr commented on one of my photos and blamed my ->-bleeped-<- for the fall of Sodom and Gomora. Apparently I am immoral and causing the destruction of society. I viewed his Photo stream and found numerous pics of a picnic with what appeared  to be a bunch fo white supremists. Skinhead rednecks with rebel flags,etc. Hmmm? Imagine that.