Quote from: Ketsy on September 12, 2009, 04:40:24 PMAs tragic as it could (possibly) be, we also do have to keep in mind that there's a chance the baby is female and the surgery did spare them a lot of suffering. If so, count me envious
.
The suffering begins when a child is forced to conform to a gender
that they do not identify with. In this case, the child is probably going
to be in for some level of suffering because even if the surgeon made the
correct choice and the child does turn out to be content with being female,
the parents are probably going to be hyper sensitive to her displaying ANY
interest in anything considered to be associated with masculinity (i.e. tomboy).
In my opinion the way that this should have been handled, is as long as the
child wasn't faced with any immediate medical emergencies resulting from
the child's intersexed condition, the child should have been allowed to
grow free of gender constraints and allowed to make their own
indication of gender identification. Which really would not take
all that long, as most of us can attest to, children make
their own gender identification at a very young age.