the war that follows after accepting ourselves, is a war of logistics, both personal in regards to s/o's, family, & friends(fortunately this part was not as big a deal for me as many others), & professonaly. i have reached the point were i cannot live as a female & work as a male as many others have been i've tried & dealing w/that approach has proved to be more than i can handle w/sanity intact. i know that i cannot complain my way out of my current situation. i salute those that have & continue paving the way, but thoses of us left behind r many, how do we proceed though this war of logistics is where i find myself. i would like to hear from any of those who have made or r making their way through this w/some degree of succes, ty! Isabella