Quote from: Chris on September 24, 2009, 01:57:03 AM
Yep u pass like a very young dude but I think u pass better in ur avatar photo.

Agree'd I like your hair though! I think its very rockish and manly!

Jay

I can't see anything funny round the chest area because the pic is a bit fuzzy and it's head-on. The hair looks a bit poofy to me--"volumized," someone called it. Might want to tone it down just a little. But you still look pretty darned good.

P.S. Okay, time to be TOTALLY honest: your pic would have been much more "passing" if you had left the toilet seat up.

i think you look like a very young dude with messed up hair the hair actually makes you look more emo then girlish not trying to offend though your chest isnt noticeable but your arms are they look small which is why equate it to young boy t should fix this once you start gaining weight what is your age in this picture i would place you as 12-13 year old boy if your in your twenties then this could be an issue until you gain either muscle or just poundage

I think the hair doesn't look really make a difference in that picture, you pass just as biological guys seems to pass I think

Thanks everyone.
Nero I know what your saying my hair is so wavy I cant always control it. Fortuntetely Im not yet 20. I plan to start taking t within the next two years.
And about my chest..I dont bind. I know it sounds crazy but my mom took away my binder. I just wear a sports bra and a large guy shirt and hope it works which usually does.

Quote from: Kyle :3 on September 24, 2009, 03:45:14 PM
Thanks everyone.
Nero I know what your saying my hair is so wavy I cant always control it. Fortuntetely Im not yet 20. I plan to start taking t within the next two years.
And about my chest..I dont bind. I know it sounds crazy but my mom took away my binder. I just wear a sports bra and a large guy shirt and hope it works which usually does.

You don't bind? I envy your small breast size. I am thin yet I have a larger chest size. A genetic feat women enjoy, but something that has been a curse on my end

Quote from: Kamren on September 24, 2009, 03:50:00 PM
You don't bind? I envy your small breast size. I am thin yet I have a larger chest size. A genetic feat women enjoy, but something that has been a curse on my end

Im a b cup.
And actually not all women like having big boobs. Some feel embarrased and get breast reductions. And as much as I love boobies saggy double ds are not sexy.

Yeah, I do know a few people who want reductions, mostly for back issues. I have a C cup. Not that large but is a pain to hide.

Quote from: Jörgen, on September 24, 2009, 04:03:54 PM

Did your mum worry about breast cancer too, is that why she took it away?

No thats the reason she wants me not to take hormones. She doesnt want me to bind because she thinks ill flatten my breasts permanetly

Quote from: Jörgen, on September 24, 2009, 04:14:12 PM

My mum doesn't know I have a binder, she doesn't even seem to notice when I wear it I'm that small.

Some people I know didn't notice when I started binding. Once someone pointed it out and another friend sort of went quiet for a second and then commented how he felt something had been different but he figured I just hadn't been wearing a bra. The size difference and lack of chest just flew over his head.
I rose a brow at the bra comment because, pfft yeah that makes sense ( sarcasm )... if gravity didn't exists.

Quote from: Arch on September 24, 2009, 02:53:02 AM


P.S. Okay, time to be TOTALLY honest: your pic would have been much more "passing" if you had left the toilet seat up.

Haha thats not my bathroom thats my friends who is a girls bathroom.
I have tried peeing standing up before..it  doesnt really work out half the time. I need one of those piss packers.

You should try convincing your mother to let you wear a binder... I mean, honestly, it's your body.  I don't know how old you are, but regardless, I feel you should be able to make decisions about what you wear, not her.  I mean, if you're going to look into a mastectomy and wearing a packer, why not wear a binder?

Argue that not having a flat chest could make you vulnerable to hate crimes, etc.  It seems unfair.

Quote from: Jörgen, on September 24, 2009, 04:34:30 PM

Aye, now that's a question where on the internet can them be bought?

Kamren, not wearing a bra would make them stand out all the more though, wouldn't it, lol, bless his cotton socks.

djknowsdicks.com.

My mom has to let me have my binder in May whether she likes it or not. I suppose I can wait.
She also thinks she can tell me not to start t in 2 years. Shes wrong. I am a good kid. But when it comes to this, who I am, noone will get in my way, not even my mother. And besides I think 2 years is plenty of time to decide if this is what I want.
And unfortuntely my mom said if I buy another binder shell take away my car. I kinda need it.

Quote from: Kyle :3 on September 24, 2009, 04:10:07 PM
She doesnt want me to bind because she thinks ill flatten my breasts permanetly

Oh man, if only this were true. Binding's such a pain in the @#$. Also, if she's threatening to take away your car, I'd stick with not getting another binder until the car's in your name and she can't. Better not to rock the boat.

Besides, if your mannerisms and voice are good enough, you probably pass fine the way you are.

Yeah, actually.  In that photo, you do pass for a young man fixin' to break some little girls hearts.  Of course, I have no idea how you come across in person.

Quote from: glendagladwitch on September 24, 2009, 08:05:26 PM
Yeah, actually.  In that photo, you do pass for a young man fixin' to break some little girls hearts.  Of course, I have no idea how you come across in person.

heh your right!
Haha I love girls. Im a nice guy though. Unfortutnely Im like that guy who watches as his girl friends date jerks and cant get a girl for himself.

Quote from: Kyle :3 on September 24, 2009, 08:16:13 PM
heh your right!
Haha I love girls. Im a nice guy though. Unfortutnely Im like that guy who watches as his girl friends date jerks and cant get a girl for himself.

Girls just like guys with confidence, even if it's the wrong kind of confidence. And at this point in your life, I can understand why it might not be easy to muster confidence because of your body, but once a girl sees a nice guy who has confidence in himself, she'll be all over you.

And a B cup? How do you hide it?