Thanks for the input, everyone. I've decided not to go. I was only going to go if a friend publicly embarrassed herself to ask me (she was planning on doing so) but she got a different date, and now it's really just not worth it for me. So the storm of homecoming has passed. I'll worry about prom when the time comes. (Homecoming is in the fall, and is an all-grades dance at the school. Prom is a seniors only dance, usually at a hotel, for anyone who was confused by that.)

Most of the guys at prom wear a tux, but then take it off once inside and just have the tux pants, a button up shirt, and a tie/vest. I may plan to do the same, and also have a room at the hotel that prom is held in. That way, if there is any concern for my safety, I will have a place to go.

Wow, I'm really late (again), but I wanted to say this. My homecoming is coming up, too. My first "formal" dance, and I don't know what to do either. If your school is bad enough that you would fear for your safety going in any type of men's clothing, I would suggest a women's suit or something like that. Although your decision of not going is probably best. I don't know what I've going to do though... I'll probably end up skipping it, too. 

Quote from: Jörgen, on September 25, 2009, 08:30:47 AM

I think it's better to go to Re-unions (is that what they're called?) when everyone is a bit more wise and experienced.

And watch all my high school buddies have a heart attack as they get re-aquainted with Chris, new and improved...rofl. Can't wait.