Um, this is slightly embarrassing, and risks being horrible person who fetishises transfolk, but I really like those pec scars that some guys have.  They seem to sort of accentuate the pectorals.  I think they're really handsome. *runs away blushing*

Quote from: Lokaeign on August 22, 2008, 07:02:20 PM
Um, this is slightly embarrassing, and risks being horrible person who fetishises transfolk, but I really like those pec scars that some guys have.  They seem to sort of accentuate the pectorals.  I think they're really handsome. *runs away blushing*

That doesn't make you a horrible person. I haven't seen enough of em to get a good idea of what you are talking about though.

Quote from: Nero on August 13, 2008, 11:58:07 PM

Quote from: Phate on August 13, 2008, 11:51:03 PM
I probably would have no trouble dating another TS or Androgyne, but it would be pretty hard on us both having to deal with two sets of gender-identity issues :O

I'd probably be more drawn towards an FtM whether pre or post OP, but it all really depends. I know I'll always be attracted to someone, who regardless of external or internal gender, expresses masculine traits or behaviors though.

So, mostly masculine individuals? that's cool.

Thats kinda what I need... -_-

Thats an interesting thought ^^

My last two crushes were masculine girls, one in beahviour and looks and the other one in behaviour...hmmm

The one I really like is a tomboy. A bit beyond tomboy.

... This is killing me.

For the past 6 months I've been in a relationship with a M-to-F transsexual. At first she expressed interest in getting SRS, but then decided against it because she didn't appeal to the results. Personally, I've never been happier with anyone else. Gender identity has nothing to do with a successful relationship.

I date women (well not anymore since I have had a partner for several years), women are women to me if I fell for a women and found out she was trans I could care less shes still a women what she was before doesn't matter to me. If I knew before I dated her she was trans same thing, shes a women now and I am dating her now not in the past.
Myles

Well said Myles...a man of my heart 

I don't mind dating a transsexual. I don't want to sound pathetic, but it's the soul that matters.

Quote from: Stranger on September 17, 2008, 02:08:34 PM
I don't mind dating a transsexual. I don't want to sound pathetic, but it's the soul that matters.

That doesn't sound pathetic at all, in fact many here would agree with you. Some people, however, cannot always transcend the physical barriers of what they are or are not attracted to. I don't think there is anything wrong with that either.

I have yet to date or fall in love with someone of my same bodily gender, but I'd never say it couldn't happen. I might be a young person, but I've seen and experienced things that have brought me to the point where I will never rule anything out; anything could happen.

As someone who is attracted only to women, I wouldn't be comfortable dating an FTM, because I would not be dating a woman. Period.
However, I would be comfortable dating an FTM.
Who I love isn't defined by their gender. I can't control who I fall for.

Would you date someone who's gender is opposite their sex?

Would you date someone who decided to take hormones and/or have surgery?

Could you love someone like this?


For those who like men (or male bodies) -

Your feelings about dating an ftm?

And your feelings about dating an mtf?


For those who like women (or female bodies) -

Your feelings on dating an ftm?

Or an mtf?


For those who are bi -

Your feelings on dating an ftm?

And your feelings on dating an mtf?

Well yes. I married one actually lol! If I had to put myself into a category I would say i'm a lesbian as that's the most uncomplicated thing. She is a mtf and I love her as a person. That's the bottom line. She could decide down the road that she wanted to be male or continue being female and get the operation or what have you I would still love her and support her. She is the person I want to spend the rest of my life with and I don't care what people say. If they have a problem with her they better come through me first. *smirk protective* lol. But it's true. She's my love, my best friend, my wife, my support, my other half. I mean when I first saw her for the very first time I knew I loved her. It's just her. I love her like I love no other person in the world and I would love her no matter what. We are who we are and we are who we are with each other. And that's ok.

*smiles, with a tear......
*sniffle...
Thank you Love!......
I love you!

Mmmm  *kiss*
-Sara

For me I would date a MTF Ts if they where completely female. I wouldnt go the other FTM cause then they would be a man and in my oppion would make me gay, to witch I'm not. Now I know your saying MTF you would date but not the other way. Here's how I feel about this. If the person was born a male and became a complete female then I would consider them a female. Now if they still had there man part's and still looked like a female I wouldn't date them just cause they are still male. My feeling's is that what trully define's are sex is a genitalia not what are body's look like. Just my feeling's.

Yes, I would date someone whose gender is opposite their sex. Hormones, surgery, glued-on bits, or lack of bits are all fine by me.

I'm more drawn to those in the middle, rather than really girly girls or guyly guys. But my middle is pretty broad.

-- Luke

yes, any day of the week

There is something about most sis males that makes me uncomfortable so i consider myself only attracted to females but I've had loving feelings toward Trans ladies an I've recently fallen for a non binary non transitioning F2M I haven't told him of my feelings yet I know he has previously IDed as a Lesbian so he may not find me attractive if he does I wouldn't mind if he transitioned.

Lately I've been thinking that transsexuals are the only people I can be properly attracted to.  The pretty ones are prettier than any birth girl could ever be imo, and I dunno, I get the impression they're the only person that I can simultaneously attracted to physically and identify with personally.

I'm afraid to though, because well, I never tell people about my own gender disassociation because of fear of ostracism and I'm pretty sure that dating a ts girl would approximate the same thing.  Which makes me feel dumb.

Yes, I would date a transperson.

I am already happily partnered, but if I wasn't I would have no problem with dating either a FtM or a MtF transsexual. As others have said, it's not a person's bits I'm attracted to, it's the person.

Actually, the biggest potential problem I can see with dating another trans-person is that we tend to collectively be a depressive lot, so there could be some possibility of feeding off each other's negativity.