Love and Sex are different things.
You can love someone without having sex with them.
You can have sex with someone without loving them.
That being said, the way you've described your romantic relationships, not just in this thread, but in many before this one, does not sound like love to me.
I'm not attempting to be mean here, but just simply honest.
It sounds like you're attached to the idea of the fairytale love and so you become overly attached to any man who comes along and sparks your interest without taking the time to get to know him as he is. This means you don't fall in love with the man, instead you get attached to the idea of the man, and the idea of the relationship, as you choose to see it.
That's not love hun, and it's not healthy.