I had a cyberskin packer once, but it fell into a public toilet! and I know it is porous, so I couldn't imagine ever getting it fully clean, so I threw it away.. That may sound over reactant.. but I have OCD.. so yea.

anyway I heard that the cyber skin packers aren't porous, so you can actually sterilize it.. I want to be able to sterilize something that sits on my junk all day and gets pee in it.. ya know?

The only one I have been able to find that is non porous is the 'mr right' but I have heard that it is too big and rigid, and it can't be made into an STP

What is a packer that CAN be sterilized that I can get? Preferably a vanilla one, not hot pink.

Not sure about non-porous packers, but I just clean mine in the tub when taking a bath. Let it soak, clean and scrub it with antibacterial soap... should clean good even for an OCD. I myself have some OCD tendencies- but none of them relate much to hygiene.

Silicone is non-porous, cyberskin and the like are. Silicone can be sterilized, cyberskin and the like cannot. Not to say that you can't keep them clean!... so you're looking for an stp packer? Or just a packer?... take a look at my post about packers, that should help you.