Hmm... kinda neither. I seem to have mastered the "hovering" bit since starting back to school, because the guys there apparently have no aim whatsoever, and the last thing I want to do, especially when rushing to get to class, is wipe someone else's urine off the seat. Ugh.
I really wish I could use an STP device of some sort, simply because it would make things far easier ("hovering" strengthens the quads, but it's annoying)... but it just doesn't seem to be in the cards, at least not until I'm able to make my own (which would require money for parts). Oh, and I use the men's. Of course. I wouldn't be here right now if I'd even tried to use the women's room in the past 3 years.
SD