How very sad. I really feel like I got to know her after listening to the interview that NPR Radio did with her back in August of 2007.( The link to it is on the bottom of the LA Times article) She sounded overall very happy and grounded, and dismayed about her divorce and family situation.
I did see that she started writing again using the Mike Penner pen name, but I'm unsure if she actually detransitioned.
My heart goes out to her loved ones. She and her inspiration will be greatly missed. This is a reminder again, how difficult transition can be, due to the treatment we receive by those who were once most close to us.