I never looked very masculine, but my voice always betrays me. I feel like I am also somewhat tone-deaf, and I have trouble finding the correct pitch. Whenever I try practicing, I have a feeling like everything is in vain. Some people tell me that I sound flamboyant, and yet sometimes I get the "wow, your voice sounds just like a radio announcer!", OH NO!!! Back in my truly pre-comiong out stage, I tried practicing my voice by singing
Rush 
(NO ONE can truly match the voice)
As for hair, I have a moderate widows' peak and a fairly high hairline, medium brown hair that changes to blonde-ish in the summer (It helps being in the sun all day). I have so far taken measures to make myself more feminine. I used to try and blend in by growing a 'beard', which always looked like dirty muttonchops. Now I am always clean-shaven, and I removed most of my sideburns. If only I could get my hair to grow faster (no, not my facial hair

).