Hi
I know that the answer may seem obvious, but: Go to a wig shop. Best thing I did; I went as Cindy with a wig I had bought on line. As soon as I walked in the door they were so helpful. OK totally read but no embaressment. I was whisked away, given a coffee, long chat about colours and lengths, style. Life style, 24/7. How to care of stuff, including my hair. Talk about extensions, not possible for me sadly. Lots or trying on and discussions, what I wanted, what other staff members thought. It was an amazing and totally wonderful exprience. When I left, my make up was touched up. I felt a million dollars. Come back anytime, we will do the touch ups and styling,
I floated out and after remembered that these shops exist for girls who have no hair. Either because of chemotherapy, TG, accident, or whatever. They are used to it.
Feel safe. Enjoy.
BTW I got the impression that if I had gone in dressed as male it would have made no difference at all. But being female I was more comfortable and I think they were as well.
Really nice girl experience
Cindy