Actually this doesn't deserve a thread that much, but here goes....

Okay I was with my mom shopping for my cousins' dress because I am baptizing my cousin, and then there was this black lady whom I glance at. I felt a radar I guess, but I look at her shoulders and they were narrow (I determine if it's  cisgendered based on shoulders), so I conclude she was just carrying herself in a different way. She was very feminine though. Oh and I was so jealous of all these beautiful dresses all over the place, since this was just a dress shop for all occasions but these dresses were like beautiful..

Then my mom comes out and asks me, "Do you think that was a guy?".
I reply, "No, I don't think so."
"I think he's a gay guy a transsexual"
"I can't tell. I think she's a woman"

The issue was this, she refer to him as a gay guy and most of as a male. This woman had breasts, and  a curvy body so if she is a transsexual she is on hormones. That's like wow, if she took it this far even if she is a transsexual refer her as a woman not as  a guy or a gay guy.


And the woman was moderately pretty too, think of Isis King but darker and thinner and more masculine.

Also a few hours before that I was saying some comments about a city, "That city has  a lot of low lives".

Then my mom went on, "I didn't raise you to think better of others blah blah, no matter what race, black asian, gay, transsexual". Why did she mention transsexual, that has nothing to do with low life.

Just kind of bothers me.