It's been a long while since I saw it so I can't remember every specific reason I didn't like it, but the one thing that has always stuck in my mind was the scene where they showed her penis by the road side while she was peeing.
I can't really verbalize right now why it bothered me so much, but I thought I'd put this out there to see if anyone else had issues with this movie.
I also didn't like how, if my memory serves me right, the movie seemed to focus on her needing the vaginoplasty to be a woman, which imho adds to the stereotyping of trans-folk as being heavily sexually-focused in their lives / transition.
Here's a quote from the actress about the scene and her state of mind while filming.
QuoteFelicity Huffman on How Playing This Confusing Gender Affected Her Personally: "It actually did in an odd way because I'm not one of those actors just because I'm able to do it, I lost myself in the part and didn't know who I was. I mean, I wish I could. Towards the end of filming, I walked into the ladies room in full regalia and I'm not kidding, I walked in and went, 'Wow, I'm not supposed to be here,' and I walked out. Then I said, 'Oh no, I am,' and walked back in again. [Laughing] It took me twice before I said, 'Okay, I'm actually a woman,' and walked into the ladies room. That was sort of frightening [laughing].
The other time I actually felt the part was living in me and getting me a bit off balance is when Duncan [Tucker, writer/director] came to me and said he wanted to shoot me by the side of the road and peeing. That wasn't in the script, the full-on shot. To digress a second, wasn't it interesting because it's a moment that pulls you out of the movie just cause it's so shocking? It pulls you out of the story and yet in at the same time. It's a wonderful take there that switches you around. Oh God, no pun intended [laughing]. So when he said he wanted to shoot that, I burst into tears. I was sobbing and couldn't breathe. He said, 'What? What? It's a prosthetic and it doesn't matter.' I realized that I was living with Bree so long that the idea of even doing it for the crew and showing that was humiliating because it wasn't who I was, and it wasn't who I truly am. I found it too vulnerable."
The two portions I put in bold bother me for some reason.
Once again, having a hard time verbalizing today.
I think ultimately I don't feel like she was a good representative of the transwomen I know.
Sure it's a step up from from trans-as-victim, but she wasn't exactly an empowering trans-character either imho.