Ok finally given in after 5 months and now looking for validation!!! So from my avatar- do i pass or are people i know just being kind

I really can't tell; the picture's a little too dark. Looks good so far...

Quote from: Arch on January 09, 2010, 01:19:09 PM
I really can't tell; the picture's a little too dark. Looks good so far...

I second that

Changed picture but sorry lighting at work not the best for photos

Quote from: Arch on January 09, 2010, 01:19:09 PM
I really can't tell; the picture's a little too dark. Looks good so far...

Thirded.

in that very small, not too well lit, photograph, yes...
but then, I look like I pass in mine.. and I don't in person

Quote from: alex k on January 09, 2010, 01:54:49 PM
Changed picture but sorry lighting at work not the best for photos

Still kinda hard to see, but I think you do based on what I can see.

i would say post a larger picture, use imageshack or tinypic. it would be easier to tell

Quote from: Markster on January 09, 2010, 06:47:59 PM
i would say post a larger picture, use imageshack or tinypic. it would be easier to tell

Yeah, we need a bigger picture. Use the image button in the lower left corner to place in post.

now i am being thick. found the image button- what do i do with it?

Better lighting in your avatar fo' sho'... lookin' good. 

Yep but you are doing something funny with your lips, so it may change if you relaxed or smiled.

Looks pretty good now.

I vote yes, the shape of your face in particular says male to me.

thank you all for your replies and apologies for the amateur photography. was getting to a stage in my head where i was thinking maybe i was just wrong about who i really was but i'm back on track now

I think you look good/passable... from the little picture I can see..

Jay