I hate being hot. My personal thermostat is set quite high, so whatever I can do to keep cool, you know? My hair was about 1/3 the way down my back 2 yrs ago, but now, my comfort level has expanded to as short as you see in my avatar, although on any given day it looks lots better than this...more lift, more body. It covers the ears, it's off the back of my neck, and looks feminine enough.
I used to think hair had to be long to be feminine. Getting it cut short the first time was the nail-biter, but now I can't stand it when it gets an inch longer.
Bev