Gender really isn't an especially dominant factor in attraction for me. I'm interested in people's presentation - fabulous hair, boots, piercings, DIY clothing - their interests and personality, their intelligence, their sense of adventure, their sensuality and magnetism. Gender is just one piece of all that, and much as it would like to, it doesn't get to occupy a special position on top of the heap.

Agreed - first and foremost, this thing that we do/are must be based on our awareness of our humanity, and our enjoyment of our diversity. That's why i hate the whole 'label' thing (TS, TG etc etc blah blah). I find that now i am aware of how diverse i am within myself, that, by my own lights, i can be who i want - and so can we all - Vive La Difference!!

Clare xxx