Being a non-private person
http://www.tranifesto.com/2010/02/being-non-private-person.html

But there are some things, no matter how non-private I am, that I won't write about. I was recently asked why my book doesn't deal with what was going on with me before I started transition. And while I have a book in the works about my childhood and adolescence, I will never write about--or talk about--my life situation directly before transition.

The reason for that is because I was married, and my husband and I split up because of my transition. I have a great deal of respect for him, and by not writing about him, I was attempting to protect him.