This subject has been broached on several occasions, and boy, does it bring out strong feelings. Twice it has brought up references to "barbie doll" grs, when I can't seem to find such a reference when I google it. It seems like a direct slap, and, though I don't have one, took offense. I would agree that someone 24, with little experience probably should keep all options open. But there are many of us that don't suffer from autogynophilia, and have no psychological "desire" for a vagina to affirm our choice or fulfill that psychological need. I have never needed one to take care of a man, and George Clooney aside, cannot imagine the guy who could induce me to have get a vagina. Mentally, my definition of "woman" involves an attitude, walk, talk, how one makes another feel, a certain "je ne se qua." Certainly breast, hair, face, movement are decisive. Vaginas, for me, nevers enters into it. I don't know if the difference stems from a philosophical basis, a mere difference in perspective, or a "true" structural difference in source of our gender identity dysphoria. I don't think either is bad or good, just different.
