your surgeon embalms your vagina based on his interpretation that your are a crossdresser, despite 4 yrs of fulltime living and 8 yrs hormones?

you get banned from your yahoo support group, at the time of embalment, when you're by yourself in Thailand?

the hotel clerk at Chon Inter, upon request to give the ambulance driver from Pattaya International directions to the hotel, turns the ambulance around and calls the clinic staff?

after returning to your home country, you seek an ER at your local hospital 6 times over a period of 3 months, only to be told they can't diagnose you because they can't treat you because they don't have expertise in SRS plastic surgery?

paraphrasing Ms Delgado's deleted statement which provoked the below discussion (thankyou Ms Delgado):

QuoteAnd you are trying to make a point with your login id and questions?

refuse to answer based on (a) what this group/forum is about, and (b) the right I have to ask these questions

Quote from: Ms Delgado on February 28, 2010, 01:30:02 PM
didnt seem you were asking questions more stating facts but okay, good luck with whatever point / questions you are trying to make

this is a transgender forum btw im sure you must of noticed when you signed up

WHATEVER it seems to you, please try to (a) tolerate that it could be true and (b) that it could have happened to me, and (c) that I might still need help.

If this is a transgender group, I see nothing that I have said that is inconsistent with my participation here.

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Quote from: Ms Delgado on February 28, 2010, 01:30:02 PM
didnt seem you were asking questions more stating facts but okay, good luck with whatever point / questions you are trying to make

this is a transgender forum btw im sure you must of noticed when you signed up

didn't seem you were trying to answer my questions more polluting the thread but okay, good luck with whatever you are trying to do

this is "Susan's Place" btw im sure you must have noticed when u signed up.

Quote from: Ms Delgado on February 28, 2010, 01:51:43 PM
well

i didnt say whatever isnt true, i ddint say you couldnt post or participate i asked what was up, it is you making the accusations not me and you actually have only posted small soundbtyes, been agressive and not said anything

please, dont get mad at me i really cant be bothered with this post anymore, my surgery with suporn went fine btw which is why i asked what was wrong

perhaps you need to contact the clinic in question and speak to sophie if you havent already
good luck with your answers

well this and that and

what was your point Ms Delgado??

if you really were trying to open me up, you picked the worse way to do it

but i'm flexible

for the most part.

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and I'm sorry your surgeon did this to me

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the clinic recused themselves from my care, after i flew 14000 miles for a checkup, and they didn't even do a vaginal canal exam

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but he isn't going to get away with it

because I have evidence

well not all of it

I'm missing a tissue biopsy that no one wants me to have

I'm missing Dr. Suporn's standard results to compare with that show what an outlier my case is

They were removed from Anne Lawrence's site

Embalmed,
I have merged your three threads since they look like they are all on the same topic.

Please read the rules of the site here

If you would like someone here to try to help you, please be more descriptive of what happened.

If you were mistreated and want to complain or vent about it, you will need to be more specific.

If your only intention is to say - without substantiation - that Dr Suporn and his staff committed a hate crime against you, then I would refer you to Rule 10.

- Kate

Quote from: K8 on February 28, 2010, 02:40:33 PM
Embalmed,
I have merged your three threads since they look like they are all on the same topic.

Please read the rules of the site here

If you would like someone here to try to help you, please be more descriptive of what happened.

If you were mistreated and want to complain or vent about it, you will need to be more specific.

If your only intention is to say - without substantiation - that Dr Suporn and his staff committed a hate crime against you, then I would refer you to Rule 10.

- Kate

Rule 10:

Quote10. Bashing or flaming of any individuals or groups is not acceptable behavior on this web site and will not be tolerated in the slightest for any reason.  This includes but is not limited to:

    * Advocating the separation or exclusion of one or more group from under the Transgender umbrella term
    * Suggesting or claiming that one segment or sub-segment of our community is more legitimate, deserving, or more real than any others

Ms Deldado broke rule 10, not I:

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    didnt seem you were asking questions more stating facts but okay, good luck with whatever point / questions you are trying to make

    this is a transgender forum btw im sure you must of noticed when you signed up

substantiation?  This is my experience.  Not substantiation.  Are you saying I have to provide proof of my experience before stating it??  I have a formic acid test above normal (that's what the body converts formalin into before it goes out your urine) at 4.5 mos postop.

Yes, the above questions are my experience.  And yes I guess you can say I'm being "aggressive" with my line of questioning.  But who among us has more right to that than I???  Is it against the rules to be aggressive?  And I didn't flame anyone here, surely.

If you're trying to censor me, then my response is "Why are we here?".  Why do we shun the stories and experiences that aren't so good to hear?  Isn't it a disservice to the T community to keep the bad news from view, only to put forth the good??

I haven't been here more than 3 hours, and I'm on the verge of breaking all sorts of rules and being banned.  Again. 

My situation is unprecedented.  It is horrendous.  It is horrific!!!

I am trying to understand what you are writing.

Posting three identical threads is not within the rules.  Posting a rant against a doctor under hate is to my mind questionable.  If you would like support or advice, I suggest that you calm down and explain what is your problem.

Quote from: embalmedbySuporn2009 on February 28, 2010, 03:09:45 PM
I have a formic acid test above normal (that's what the body converts formalin into before it goes out your urine) at 4.5 mos postop.

What does it mean to have a formic acid test above normal?  I'm not familiar with that.

- Kate

Topic locked.
These are some very serious allegations. If you wish to talk about your experience in less provocative and incendiary terms, you may.
Embalmed, your name was also changed to one complimentary to your email. If you would like it changed to something else, please let me know.