Quote from: Vicky on April 17, 2010, 11:20:38 AM
Giving the Devil his due, I did see one thing right in the ACP letter. The idea was to not RUSH an open and irretrievable declaration over something that can affect your future life. People in their teens, and even the adults that deal with them get caught up in a mad rush to get things done quickly.
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I do have to say, and with the sincere greatest of respect, that as someone who actually was fortunate enough to come out at aged 5 and miraculously even back in the 1960's was taken seriously by my rather forward thinking parents, I absolutely could not disagree more.
I think it is axiomatic that being "free to be me" and allowed the space "to find myself" by my loving parents and educators was a great gift and one of the reasons why I have never really suffered to any meaningful extent from any of the psychological difficulties that so many transpeople have to battle with, like depression, resentment for lost time etc.
The only thing I rgeret was the time I wasted during my late teens, when my first therapist, astonished by the way I had already managed to carve out a niche for myself as a somewhat androgynous "almost girl" decided that the sensible thing would be to put me through a period of a kind of reparative therapy, "just to be sure."
I think everyone should be allowed to experiment in their youth - the only provisio that I would put on that was that, as my parents always told me, "there is no shame in wanting to try something and then deciding that you have changed your mind" Kid's should be allowed to be themselves, but they should also always be reassured and told that until they have surgery they can always change back.
I have already sent the ACP an email much along the lines that Julie Marie wrote, although at the time I wrote mine the "rap" hadn't been delivered so instead i criticised their rather selective use of outdated sources and their complete ignoring of more modern research.
The gist of my email was, however, very much the same.
Post Merge: April 18, 2010, 10:17:13 AM
Ah I see from your second post that we are not that far apart in our thinking after all

I just think reactionary bozo's like the ACP need to be TOLD where the acceptable limits of good medical practice lie, and providing an excuse for hatred and bigotry certainly isn't part of that!