Do people in churches or at marriage license bureaus check with Social Security records to see if couples are what they are, M or F? I can't imagine that happening but there are a lot of nonsensical things that happen in the world, I suppose (dropping "smart bombs" from 25,000 feet up occurs to me as being, at best, nonsensical and, at worst, murder).
I think we all have to go where love pushes us and, if the love is true, damn the consequences.
Teri Anne