really irritates me. She at one point was/is very supportive of the fact that I was a lesbian. I start dating a transguy and all that support is gone. I cant really describe it well in words, so I am going to past the FB chat we had tonight
Her:
well well well
so whats up with you and Davis
is it the entire he was a she but now wants to be a he and you like the shes?
where are you?
11:00pm Me
lmao. no. Just normal relationship issues that were working on or trying to work on and its just better and easier trying to work on them apart
im here army wives was on lol. i cant miss the previews for next week
lol
11:00pm
good goly
so are you seeing someone else too
11:01pm Me
no why?
11:01pm
does he/she live with you still
11:01pm Me
yea
and its he
11:01pm
no I was wondering always chicks saying I love you girl
11:01pm Me
haha yea I'm well loved what can i say
11:01pm
Shut the ->-bleeped-<- up he is living at your house on Felicia
11:01pm Me
lol;
yes why?
11:01pm
How can you work on things apart in the same house/bed HELLOOOO
Does your mom know its a he
and what about the fact that you DONT LIKE BOYS!!!!!!!
11:02pm Me
we don't hate each other, and he has his own room across the hall. no my mom doesn't, and why does it have to be so clear cut who I like, cant i just like who i like?
11:03pm
I don't know you tell me
do you like/love him
11:03pm Me
yes, very much so. We just need to work on some things
if we get back together or not, wont be based on his need to transition. \
11:04pm
things things like jobs money jelousy those thing
You are a care taker my friend just like me and just like your mother
If the downstairs is still a girl how is it a he seriously not being a jerk just wondering
11:06pm
focus girl I need to go to bed
11:06pm Me
What he has in his pants doesn't define him. Does that mean if you were dating a guy, and his downstairs didnt work would that make him less of a man?
11:06pm
You are still a girl right lmfao
11:06pm Me
Yes i am
11:07pm
Hell yes I have dated a guy and his downstairs didn't work and that is the end of that story
But since you are into chicks and not dicks it doesn't matter for you
which is cool
so what is the problem then
11:07pm Me
It does matter, if he is happier being called he, and being seen as a guy then he
he's a guy. its that simple
11:08pm
REALLY then why have you not tell Aunty Carol
11:08pm Me
and the problem is normal relationship problem that pretty much everyone faces and its just a matter of how to deal and we havent been dealing well enough and so were on a break
11:08pm
which believe me I have NEVER said a word to her
11:09pm Me
because, my thoughts and my feelings are not shared by her and so therefor it has to be handled and dealt with the right way and I havent figured out that right way yet
11:09pm
oh a break....you've seen friends right where racheal and whats his name are on a break and she blanks someone else turns out that break didn't mean the same to both lol
11:09pm Me
lmao. No its not like that lol
11:10pm
hmmm have you told your brothers?judith? Jess?
11:11pm Me
I never even officially "came out" to them in the first place so no I havent. I plan to tell my mom first, and then everyone else. If not I'll start with jon and shannon, because out of all of them, they will probably accept it the easiert
easiest
11:11pm
so do you think everyone thinks you and DJ were just friends???
11:12pm Me
Oh no I know they all know. What i meant by that is I never had to "come out" and so having to come out with this is tricky
Its not the easiest thing to say hey mom, DJ is transitioning to become a guy okay.
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Although this fascinates me i must go to bed with the love of my life and it is.....Zachary xoxo
11:13pm Me
lol. good night
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