Hi there,

I've been a crossdresser all my life.  I started with pantyhose when I was 4 or 5.  It was pretty innocent at the time.

As I got older I was drawn to other items of womens clothing.  I went through the gambit of "who am I" and "why me". I thought I was a freak and thought since I liked womens clothes did that make me gay?   I spent my youth self tortured and scared of what I might be.

I joined the military out of high school to try and force the girly stuff away.  It stopped for a while but didn't make it go away.

I spent quite a bit of time coming to terms with who I am and my dressing.  It makes me happy.  I don't like makeup, nor do I try to pass as a women.  Truthfully I just feel comfy and relaxed in skirts and lingerie.  I'm not your average male, and I'm ok with it.  My wife accepts this side of me and encourages it.

I figure what I do doesn't hurt anyone, and it makes me happy.  I'll ping around the CD sections and hope to meet some like minded folks

Sadly I do not deliberate in your terms but if all shades were black and white -- Why do we have gray in the middle? It's fantastic to meet new people here and I hope you enjoy your stay and continue to be part of our ever flourishing HOME!

And also...Be yourself, love who you are and I know plenty of men who simply enjoy the ecstatic feeling and rush from feminine clothing. It doesn't make you odd or weird -- But more YOU...And at the end of the day that's the only person you can help and to be.

hi welcome to susans hun

Hi PhSensei,

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Hugs and Love,
Janet

Thanks for the welcome   I was given a link to some info here and I lurked a bit before joining.  Getting the lay of the land etc. 

I liked what I saw so I figured i'd join in.  I wish CD/TG issues were more known when I was a kid.  I may have saved myself from years of self torment as I sorted things out to get where I am today.  Hopefully the internet will help some young people find an easier path.

Quote from: PhSensei on May 11, 2010, 09:51:04 AM
Thanks for the welcome   I was given a link to some info here and I lurked a bit before joining.  Getting the lay of the land etc. 

I liked what I saw so I figured i'd join in.  I wish CD/TG issues were more known when I was a kid.  I may have saved myself from years of self torment as I sorted things out to get where I am today.  Hopefully the internet will help some young people find an easier path.

...And that's also why we're here to help pave the road along with the assistance of you.