Quote from: Miniar on May 18, 2010, 07:08:11 AM
Also, around 10-15% of all natal women have never reached orgasm.
Testosterone can help with that.

How do you know if you reach orgasm for sure?

Quote from: ccc on May 18, 2010, 03:21:09 PM
How do you know if you reach orgasm for sure?

Uh...you know. The way I describe some of the stages of orgasm...there's this build up of tension either in your body or just crotch/bum/thighs. The tension builds up to a certain point before your muscles relax and you feel rapid contractions with some of the muscles within your crotch (being vague, here). That's pretty much it me thinks?

Quote from: ccc on May 18, 2010, 03:21:09 PM
How do you know if you reach orgasm for sure?

Usually if you have to ask that means you never have.    Basically you lose control of your body for a good ten seconds at least.  The contractions are powerful and pleasurable and unmistakable. 

Try the shower head.  Lay down, put your feet in the air, point the stream at your dick and be brave.  It will blow your mind.

Actually, I wouldn't expect it to "blow your mind".

Orgasm works like this.
There's a build up of "tension" which reaches a point where everything get's a little blurry, and then tension is released. When the tension is released there is "usually" spasming in the kegels (pelvic floor). 
The tension also releases "enjoyable brain chemicals".

It blows my mind every time and I'm at once or twice a day.

Perhaps my mind is just easily blown.  I wouldn't be a bit surprised

Quote from: Squirrel698 on May 18, 2010, 03:27:09 PM
Usually if you have to ask that means you never have.    Basically you lose control of your body for a good ten seconds at least.  The contractions are powerful and pleasurable and unmistakable. 

Try the shower head.  Lay down, put your feet in the air, point the stream at your dick and be brave.  It will blow your mind.

Well im pretty sure I have. I just wonder how do you know for sure that you have, or exactly what it feels like, or what's supposed to happen.

The objective physical sign of orgasm that you should notice is a series of (fairly rapid, at least one per second) involuntary pelvic muscle contractions. You may also notice sudden erection of the nipples, unless you're someone whose nipples become erect any time you're turned on. Your face might flush and you might break a slight sweat. But the muscle contractions are the primary sign.

Quote from: kyril on May 18, 2010, 04:34:05 PM
The objective physical sign of orgasm that you should notice is a series of (fairly rapid, at least one per second) involuntary pelvic muscle contractions. You may also notice sudden erection of the nipples, unless you're someone whose nipples become erect any time you're turned on. Your face might flush and you might break a slight sweat. But the muscle contractions are the primary sign.

Thanks guys, I must pay more attention next time. Look out for what's going on with my body, I get distracted.

Quote from: Squirrel698 on May 18, 2010, 03:51:15 PM
It blows my mind every time and I'm at once or twice a day.

Perhaps my mind is just easily blown.  I wouldn't be a bit surprised

I dunno about easily, but my mind is blown a good 2-4 times a day. Yeah I have lots of me time. Shup. I'm almost afraid of what my drive would do on T.

Quote from: Rowan on May 18, 2010, 05:45:09 PM
I dunno about easily, but my mind is blown a good 2-4 times a day. Yeah I have lots of me time. Shup. I'm almost afraid of what my drive would do on T.

My mind is hardly ever blown. Orgasms just don't seem that WOW to me. Maybe do it once a week/once every other week. My sex drive is nil...I'm hoping T will fix that but I'm afraid of getting an overwhelming sex drive that I won't know what to do with myself.

This thread is hilarious, had me laughing for a good 10 minutes.  I needed a good chuckle

On the original topic, I've been on T for 5 months now.  I got growth fast in the first week or two, but it's slowed down considerably.  I didn't measure myself pre-T, but I would guess I was at half a centimeter, maybe slightly more than that.  Now I'm 3 cm flaccid and about 3.5 cm erect.

I want to try pumping, but I just don't have the money to buy a quality pump.  I've thought about getting a brake fluid pump and attaching that to a syringe.  Should be cheaper than buying a pre-made pump from a sex shop.  Anyone ever tried that or heard of someone use that method?

Quote from: Miniar on May 18, 2010, 03:47:31 PM
Actually, I wouldn't expect it to "blow your mind".

Orgasm works like this.
There's a build up of "tension" which reaches a point where everything get's a little blurry, and then tension is released. When the tension is released there is "usually" spasming in the kegels (pelvic floor). 
The tension also releases "enjoyable brain chemicals".

yea it doesnt blow my mind either.. it feels good.. but its not amazing

Quote from: Adio on May 18, 2010, 06:06:12 PM
This thread is hilarious, had me laughing for a good 10 minutes.  I needed a good chuckle

On the original topic, I've been on T for 5 months now.  I got growth fast in the first week or two, but it's slowed down considerably.  I didn't measure myself pre-T, but I would guess I was at half a centimeter, maybe slightly more than that.  Now I'm 3 cm flaccid and about 3.5 cm erect.

I want to try pumping, but I just don't have the money to buy a quality pump.  I've thought about getting a brake fluid pump and attaching that to a syringe.  Should be cheaper than buying a pre-made pump from a sex shop.  Anyone ever tried that or heard of someone use that method?

You should probably find out how much force is exerted by a brake fluid pump before trying that.

Quote from: SilverFang on May 18, 2010, 11:03:07 PM
You should probably find out how much force is exerted by a brake fluid pump before trying that.

I wish I knew.  That's why I asked if anyone had heard of that before.  I got the idea by looking at a picture of a pump and thinking the equipment looked familiar.

This is the clit pump from babeland:

Price: $113-147 (sorry, couldn't get a larger pic)

This is a vacuum pump/brake bleed kit from amazon:

Price:  $44 (plus $1-2 for the syringe)

I figure if they are basically the same thing, and I stayed within the limits of a normal pump, it would be okay.

hmmm me thinks sombady just modified a brake pump and put a higher price tag on it but i still think you need to know the pressure excerted by the brake pump because i dont even want to know how bad that will hurt if it latches on with massive pressure.
jessica

I don't think I could spend money on a pump, I just don't really have an interest. Something about pumping just gives me the creeps and I'm not sure why.

Quote from: Lachlann on May 19, 2010, 02:07:30 AM
I don't think I could spend money on a pump, I just don't really have an interest. Something about pumping just gives me the creeps and I'm not sure why.

Same, it seems painful and a little odd to me. I doubt it makes any significant difference anyway.

Okay, About the difference a pump makes.

I know it's a while since someone asks, but I'm slow to respond to certain questions, DWI.

I don't get hard often.
This is "probably" due to a combination of low blood-pressure, chronic pain, chronic fatigue, and depression.

This means I do actually have a chance of comparing erection to erection as they're "maybe" twice a week.

The difference between "flaccid" and "hard" has been expanding far faster since I started pumping.
There's a clearly visible/noticeable difference in size now, whereas about 2 months ago, the difference was almost solely one of "how squishy it is". (I am aware that I'm wording things poorly, my English is less good at early morning without sleep than it is in early afternoon with sleep, DWI.)
This "might" just be the T, but the damned thing gets harder, longer, a little wider, and sticks out a fair bit more now when hard than when not hard.
Seeing as I'm too busy being all  and playing with my husband every chance I get in that particular state, I haven't brought the measuring stick out for checking exactly what the difference is, but I'm getting increasingly interested in doing so.. for rather obvious reasons. (I'm a dude, I wanna know the numbers and brag where possible!)

ok i have to ask after all this is the dang thing useable or is just about the feeling that its there i hope im not offending but i have no clue. i mean i know you would still have sensation but is it usable like a penis i really dont understand why this topic facinates me speacially since i would gladly hack off mine and give it to any of you guys the most totally useless piece of tissue the human body ever wasted cells on
jessica

It can get big enough to have some "penetrative" use yes. Though most gents need some surgical work done in the area to be able to use it that way "comfortably" even if size allows for it without the surgical work.
And it is functional for sexual gratification even if it doesn't get to that size.

But just having something that one can look at and say "well that sure looks like a penis to me" even if it's "very small" is definantly a plus, at least for me.