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What gender are you in your dreams?

Started by thestory, January 26, 2010, 02:24:12 PM

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What gender are you in your dreams?

FTM - Dominantly Male
FTM - Dominantly Female
FTM - Switch Regularly
Androgynous - Dominantly Male
Androgynous - Dominantly Female
Androgynous - Switch Regularly
MTF - Dominantly Male
MTF - Dominantly Female
MTF - Switch Regularly
Other ( explain below )

casorce

Frequently switch, even within the same dream sequence, depending on my role in the dream.
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Zack

I'm FTM and I switch, 80% of the time I am male though.
"Politics is the art of controlling your environment."

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childofwinter

I'm not sure, I think I've always been without any obvious gender or even biological sex in my dreams. Either that or I don't remember well enough to be able to tell you for sure.

In my daydreams, it switches to whatever I feel like switching it to in that daydream.
I have no concrete idea of my gender identity, but I believe I am an Androgyne.
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justmeinoz

Last night for the first time I can say that I definitely was a woman in a dream.

It might have had something to do with coming out to an ex-girlfriend whom I had arranged to catch up with today, and who I had decided to come out to.  Probably the subconscious telling me I had made the right decision. 

Also in the dream I was with a naked woman, who I believe was my girlfriend, who was showing me where she had been superficially cut by a broken jar, from the left breast to half-way down the right thigh, slightly cutting her vagina.  I take this to be an indication that she was a combination of my anima (emotional subconscious) and wanting a partner, as well as wanting to have a womans body via surgery, risky but a correct choice.  Any other Jungian interpretations anyone?
"Don't ask me, it was on fire when I lay down on it"
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Byren

I've always been a guy in my dreams, unless it was a screwed-up memory of some kind. :-\ Those dreams are bizarre anyway, though...aheh.
"I am imagination. I can see what the eyes cannot see. I can hear what the ears cannot hear. I can feel what the heart cannot feel."
Peter Nivio Zarlenga
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Ashley Allison

I've been male in most of my dreams... But, that being said, I started being feeling in my dreams one year ago, and these dreams happen every so often.  Definitely can say I like being female in my dreams... :)

Had one a few months ago (I wrote it down in my iPod to remember) that I was a female, and was getting pleasured by someone.  In this dream, I ended up MMA with my best friend (he is a male), and then took a bike ride under the glow of the moon.  It is weird for me whenever I realize I am female in my dream.  By this I mean that I really like it, but there is this intuitive feeling that I am female inside and my body matches that statement :)
Fly this girl as high as you can
Into the wild blue
Set me free
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VelindaSalazar

For me, it depends on the dream.  Most dreams are in my biological gender, but a few have been in a different gender.  My dreams can be weird and interesting at times.
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Karla

Most of my dreams I'm gender neutral, and feeling dysphoric inside the dream, but lately more female.
70% androgynous, 30% female - I appreciate my dreams any way they manifest because they're like feedback from my subconscious for me to see how things are going back there.
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twistedpixie

Usually I appear in my dreams as I currently look, which would be male. Though I seem to be able to make myself look however I want as long as I am intensely thinking about it when I fall asleep.
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Elijah3291

I don't know about you guys, but Im not a gender at all in my dreams.. I'm just me.

sometimes things happen in my dreams where I would have a sex, like once I dreamt I had a penis=male, and another time I dreamt I had had top surgery=trans male.

but for the most part.. in my dreams I cant even see myself.. I just see through my eyes.
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Ry

my dreams switch between me being how i am now and being just strictly male.
i like being male in my dreams, i act a lot more comfortable than when im not male.

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ScaredKiwi

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Seras

I used to practice trying to be fully conscious in my dreams. At one point I as able to literally transform myself to whatever I wanted. Though the side effect generally was that this woke me up.

Otherwise it varies. I have some awesome female dreams and boring normal ones too.
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Elijah3291

I have been having more dreams where I am a cisgendered male... last night I had a dream that I had a boner

lets just say... it was an awesome dream, but a not so fun wake up, when I realized that i was in the real world again
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lightvi

When I'm a human I'm usually female, but I'm not usually a human ;)
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rexgsd

i wish i remembered more but i had a dream last night where it was really clear that i was a cis-guy and i totally knew what it feeled like to be how it should be. it was wonderful
☥fiat justitia ruat coelum☥

"Girls will be boys, and boys will be girls. Its a mixed up, muddled up, shook up world." - The Kinks

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K8

I'm usually no specific gender (except sexual dreams).  Last night I was obviously in a male role - there was a woman I was taking care of.  It wasn't sexual at all, but the role was clear. 

Fortunately I see my therapist today.  Perhaps my brain is still sorting things out, since I'm less than six weeks post-op.  Or perhaps I will always be a dominant woman, caring for other women who need some protection. ::)

- Kate
Life is a pilgrimage.
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K@I

in my dreams i don't really have a gender, but other times i am a trans man but still have a female body.
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Yakshini

When my dreams are sexual in nature, I am male about 80% of the time. But when they aren't sexual, I don't really have a noticeable sex.
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Britney♥Bieber

Idk really. I did have a dream I was hanging out with the Kardashians and Lil Kim and I was a girl, like them.