I'm wondering how it is for a guy to be with a post op girl? Is it better, tighter? Not as good? Cant tell the difference?

I'm so curious, as i am in to men and intend on having intercourse.

Ladies i know your only speculating but what kind of feed back have you gotten from the men you've been with?

Quote from: Jessica.C on May 25, 2010, 06:34:38 AM
I'm wondering how it is for a guy to be with a post op girl? Is it better, tighter? Not as good? Cant tell the difference?

I'm so curious, as i am in to men and intend on having intercourse.

Ladies i know your only speculating but what kind of feed back have you gotten from the men you've been with?

All my post op friends said, the men can't tell the difference and some gynecologist are fooled till they feel the prostate and there there is no uterus ridges

To the guy, if your super super slow or stick your finger in, they might hint, but not really make sense of it unless they been with 10+ girls then you know its maybe a guy you don't want to sleep with anyways.

I have been with my share of GG's in the past and the ridges is what makes the difference and OH the taste as well! (We will always carry our muskyness taste, while GG's are sweet) now that statement is negotiable since it's not a hard fact.

Back in the 1970's, in the days of "Peace, Love & Rock and Roll", I was with quite a few guys after SRS and only one ever had any suspicions.

Quote from: SaraR on May 25, 2010, 06:42:15 PMI have been with my share of GG's in the past and the ridges is what makes the difference and OH the taste as well! (We will always carry our muskyness taste, while GG's are sweet) now that statement is negotiable since it's not a hard fact.

I disagree with the taste statement. My boyfriend says girls are either "spicy" or "sweet" .... apparently I am "spicy" 

um spicy/musky same deal im talking about, theres a difference in the sweet taste.

I gather that since I have been using the probiotics containing Lactobacillus Vaginalis that I now taste "right" too (ie sweet) but I'm not about to embarrass anyone by telling you who told me that.

PS - none of my past lovers (both male and female) have ever noticed any major differences, and since my recent cosmetic update I think it would be pretty unlikely that anyone short of a full gynacologist would!

Quote from: rejennyrated on May 25, 2010, 07:11:12 PM
I gather that since I have been using the probiotics containing Lactobacillus Vaginalis that I now taste "right" too (ie sweet) but I'm not about to embarrass anyone by telling you who told me that.

PS - none of my past lovers (both male and female) have ever noticed any major differences, and since my recent cosmetic update I think it would be pretty unlikely that anyone short of a full gynacologist would!

Are those those tablets at a health food store?

Quote from: SaraR on May 25, 2010, 06:42:15 PM

I have been with my share of GG's in the past and the ridges is what makes the difference and OH the taste as well! (We will always carry our muskyness taste, while GG's are sweet) now that statement is negotiable since it's not a hard fact.

Oh Nooooo, muskyness taste. That just sounds awful. I hope mines sweet!!!!

ok , i'm not post-op and cuddling is the furthest i've gone in my life . however, when i saw that thread i was surprised , i mean i can't even imagine that a bodily produced fluid could be sweet(?!)
so out of curiosity i called my brother (at 6 am) who had his quiet share with GG's (he never met a post-op though) and he says it's not , he said there's no certain taste of it and it's always different

Well this might be TMI but I was reading this thread and will inform you that I am biologically female and no, it is by no means sweet. It's rather tasteless, not really unpleasant.

Quote from: SaraR on May 25, 2010, 09:11:27 PM
Are those those tablets at a health food store?

NO they are vaginal pessaries at first you use a whole packet day after day - but I've found that then you can ease back to just a couple a week...

I can't claim any credit for this discovery though it was Gothique11 who put me onto them. They come in seveal brand names.

In the UK they are sold as INTRAFRESH over in the US they are FEMINA FLORA. In Australia / NZ I imagine there will be another name wich you will have to find - Google "Probiotic Vaginal Pessaries"

I was really skeptical when I first heard about it from Gothique - but I tried it and to my amazement it works and works well.

Full details (but possibly not for the squeamish) in this thread https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,68720.0.html

Quote from: SilverFang on May 25, 2010, 11:51:35 PM
Well this might be TMI but I was reading this thread and will inform you that I am biologically female and no, it is by no means sweet. It's rather tasteless, not really unpleasant.

EDIT - oh yes and without giving TMI and outing him the guy who told me about the taste/smell is Bi and I guess the "sweet" description is just his descripition for "attractive" - also Being Bi myself I know the taste of a healthy Vag - there is also a distinctive but pleasing odour - before I usedthe product the odour of mine, whilst not rank, was never as attractive. Now it is.

After that (Gothique) thread that is so on my list of things to do post-op.

The tastes are definitely real

Also if someone sweated all day... it might not be a good idea to put your face there! Trust me!

Is this FEMINA FLORA something use want to use all the time, on a regular basis?  Like as soon as your healed enough to start having intercourse, using it?

Not that i was ever with allot of women. But I think part of the reason i wasn't in a rush to have a vagina for myself was the fact that from what i recall it just smells in general and don't taste too good either. However maybe that's because I just so prefer what a man has down there as apposed to a woman.

priobotics are intervally used. depends on what you get.

Quote from: Jessica.C on May 26, 2010, 08:51:59 AM
Is this FEMINA FLORA something use want to use all the time, on a regular basis?  Like as soon as your healed enough to start having intercourse, using it?

Not that i was ever with allot of women. But I think part of the reason i wasn't in a rush to have a vagina for myself was the fact that from what i recall it just smells in general and don't taste too good either. However maybe that's because I just so prefer what a man has down there as apposed to a woman.

Then the women you have been with were rather unhygienic.  A woman who takes care of herself physically and keeps herself clean will not have a foul odor and the taste will be barely anything, if at all.  Just like a man, what a woman puts into her body will affect the taste and smell of her body secretions. For example, lets look at South Asian people who eat a lot of curries and spicy foods.  When they sweat this stuff emanates from their pours.  Conversely, a man who ingests nothing but beer, big macs and fries will taste like absolute s**t as well, as would a woman.  Much like uncircumcised men, women have to be extra diligent with hygiene--not just relying on one shower a day to get you by.  Trust me, if a woman's interests revolve around nothing more than Oprah, The View, bowling, wrestling, drinking and eating garbage, then hygiene is probably the furthest thing from her mind.

I came across the FeminaFlora product a couple of days ago and was curious but reluctant to try it as I did not know if it would be safe to use.  After reading Gothique's account of the product, I will more than definitely try this product.  Here is a link

http://www.bodyenergyclub.ca/shop/new-roots-femina-flora-10-caps-p-3594.html

Quote from: Jessica.C on May 25, 2010, 06:34:38 AM
I'm wondering how it is for a guy to be with a post op girl? Is it better, tighter? Not as good? Cant tell the difference?

I'm so curious, as i am in to men and intend on having intercourse.

Ladies i know your only speculating but what kind of feed back have you gotten from the men you've been with?

I'II always remember my very first boyfriend, we where in a relationship when I was preop, he was with me when I had my srs, so he knew my situation, the very first time it hurt, I had a little bleeding, he tolded me at the time it felt like a normal woman, but a little tight, anyway he's married now to somebody else.
Over time as I healed I had intercourse with most of my boyfriends, all of them except 1 couldnd tell the difference, only 1boyfriend was suspicions, he was very big, my vagina couldnd adjust to his size, maybe a GG vagina can, he said at the time it was strange, anyway when he learn I was trans he said that must be the reason, that relationship ended badly, I posted about it in another thread a while back. Big guys don't suit my pussy LOL!
Im engaged to be married to my present boyfriend (fiancé) when I tolded him I was trans he just couldnd believe it, he tolded me he'd never have known if I hadnd tolded him, he can't tell the difference, now I don't know if he's just being super sweet but sometimes it feels better he tells me, it has given me so much confidence as a woman that I can satisfy a guy sexually in that way.
He had a good few girlfriends before me, so he knows, he can compare, he has no complaints, he seems to be very satisfied with my girl down there, he has excepted me as a real woman.
p

Wow Pauline that's awesome. i just last week told this guy I've been talking to and he asked me why would i feel the need to tell, which shocked the hell out of me. I was just shocked that a guy would even say that. I think it was one of those things he'd just assume not know. But I to afraid of discovery.

Quote from: Jessica.C on May 26, 2010, 06:02:34 PM
Wow Pauline that's awesome. i just last week told this guy I've been talking to and he asked me why would i feel the need to tell, which shocked the hell out of me. I was just shocked that a guy would even say that. I think it was one of those things he'd just assume not know. But I to afraid of discovery.

If someone truly loves you, they will love you for who you are.

Quote from: SaraR on May 26, 2010, 06:04:58 PM
If someone truly loves you, they will love you for who you are.

That's very sweet Sara. But I'm starting to think that when it comes to guys they"ll love you for who you are till something better comes along.

Quote from: Jessica.C on May 26, 2010, 07:41:17 PM
That's very sweet Sara. But I'm starting that when it comes to guys they"ll love you for who you are till something better comes along.

not all guys are like that, some stay true to their love!