I need a packer that I can wear every day comfortably and have sex anytime with...
Does this exist? 
Do any of you guys have experience with a good pack and play packer?  It's gotta be good for her too..

I've tried to find something similar before and failed.
Regular packers shouldn't be used for sex as it can ruin the material and I imagine they'd be pretty useless at it anyway.
You can get packers that you insert a rod into to make erect. From what I've heard though, the rod has been known to push through the tip of the packer, making it very dangerous.

Dammit.

I'd suggest asking here: http://community.livejournal.com/ftm_in_bed

i will post a video later today of how to convert the GV soft pack into an STP and Pack'n'Play using a Travelmate. Works fine for me and my girlfriend. the travelmate might work it's way through the tip but it is actually anchored inside the balls and can be kept in place for sure by wearing a condom.

Most packers that can penetrate are too stiff to use as an everyday packer. They create an unrealistic bulge or you just appear to be hard all the time and definitely don't pass the grope test. You may need to get creative and modify a packer like Emil has done.

I use the vixskin goodfella. It's realistic in the way it looks and feels. It IS a hard dick so when not done right it can look like a boner. What I do is wear tight boxer briefs and point the dick straight down one of my thighs. The other option is to take it and instead of wearing it up, you turn it so it goes parallel to a waist band.

Mr. Bendy can be used as a pack n play but doesn't come in realistic colors and I've heard of people having problems with the wire inside of it.

My recommendation is go to a sex toy site with reviews (like babeland) so you can get an idea as to what you can do and with what sort of dicks. I would prefer to just pack hard instead of finding a typical dual use.

i posted a new thread with a video on how i convert the soft pack -->


https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,77951.0.html

Hey thanks, guys.
Thank you especially, Emil.

I have a lolajake, I do have to insert a rod to make it stiff, but don't mind that, it can fit in my pocket and all. I just wanted something I could use without having a wear a harness. You do have to be somewhat careful or it will come unglued.
Myles

I was going to say the goodfella also.
But I have personally not had any experience with it.

I've only used a cyberskin for play, which feels real &looks somewhat realistic. You just have to be careful with the material. And you can pack it by putting it down the side of your leg.

I don't think there ARE any good pack n plays out there right now.
Maybe someday soon.