Well you shouldn't have to be forced to say anything, if you feel or felt uncomfortable with telling us your woes then feel free not to. Here at Susan's we just want you to take the steps you feel are best. We aren't going to bite!

Also, I'd like to say welcome or my favorite word...Bonjour and I hope you have a grand time in this forum and as you get to know all of us -- We'll get to know you as well...And your story will undeniably be different then ours in some way or form but in the end, when all of us share our most serene and yes even are most darkest moments, it polymerizes all of us together and creates one big happy family.