Where are you, Melanie? Check our links area under health. There is a resource link to the International Interex Organization that has resources by state. You might find something driveable.
Also think about attending a TG convention like First event in MA, Texas Tea, Southern Comfort in Atlanta, Esprit west of Seattle. You'll make friends who will have other friends. You know: 6 degrees of separation.
And here. You may meet a neighbor here.
Robyn