I am looking for a good gender therepist and am wondering if you ladies can point me in the right direction, either a referral or some updated links. I live near the Toronto area, (specifically Kitchener/Waterloo). Thanks and take care.

Try this link:
https://www.susans.org/Health/Therapists_and_Counselors/Canada/Ontario/

I'm not sure if they're close to you, but worth a look anyway.