hehe well today I got a nice little phone call From my best friend
She said. "Hey we are having a girls night tomoz night, we going to have a movie then everyone is sleeping over at mine..... Just wondered if you wanted to come "

I almost cried I was that happy

hehe If they are inviting me to there "girls night", they must know somthing's up righttt?

Anyways, I just thought I would share my awesomeee newsss Im so excited

Great news - I do hope you have fun.

but more than that I really do hope you can soon find the moment to have that little chat with your mum. You will feel so much better when you've done it I promise you.

Enjoy your night out.

awesome have fun!

hehe If they are inviting me to there "girls night", they must know somthing's up righttt?
Anyways, I just thought I would share my awesomeee newsss Im so excited
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wonderful news...enjoy...and take a big box of chocolates or whatever

awesome girl! Yes I would HIGHLY suspect they know if they're inviting you to a girls night out and a sleepover.

Oh -- you mean you're pre-transition? Awesome, yes, that would seem to suggest overtly announce they know what's up. Sounds like a good time to come out, if you're not already. Something like, "So, when did you figure it out, that I'm not really a guy?"

Anyway, have fun. That kind of inclusion after being excluded all you life is just such an incredible joy!

go but also protect your heart.  If these people have not been told, by you, then they could be ether curious or are setting you up.  Just keep your options home open.

But also go and have fun with "the girls".

Quote from: rejennyrated on July 23, 2010, 05:38:49 AM

but more than that I really do hope you can soon find the moment to have that little chat with your mum. You will feel so much better when you've done it I promise you.

Was a really awesome fun!!!!

About the talk with my mum, I doubt it's going to happen anymore, in the last 2 weeks my mum and I are just falling apart, we live in the same house and we have not spoken in like a day or so.... I have no idea what ive done, she just go real angry with me

Life goes on I guess.

Ohhh and by the way they were talking last night, they no
I did not go out and say it infrount of everyone, I want to tell my bestie 1st

Quote from: justme19 on July 25, 2010, 12:09:55 AM
Was a really awesome fun!!!!

About the talk with my mum, I doubt it's going to happen anymore, in the last 2 weeks my mum and I are just falling apart, we live in the same house and we have not spoken in like a day or so.... I have no idea what ive done, she just go real angry with me

Life goes on I guess.

Ohhh and by the way they were talking last night, they no
I did not go out and say it infrount of everyone, I want to tell my bestie 1st

Sorry about your mom. Great news about your friends though ^_^

Quote from: justme19 on July 25, 2010, 12:09:55 AM
in the last 2 weeks my mum and I are just falling apart, we live in the same house and we have not spoken in like a day or so.... I have no idea what ive done, she just go real angry with me

... and it doesn't occur to you that whilst everyone around you obviously knows or suspects something and by your own admission she outright asked you if there was something you wanted to share with her, you held out on her and refused to come clean?

I would say its glaringly obvious what you've done! She knows you are holding out on her about something and it is upsetting her. A girls best friend is supposed to be her mum after all and friends share things. They don't lie and hold out on each other, say eveything is fine when patently it isn't!

Surely you are not missing the painfully obvious answer here? You can't be that determined to avoid this can you? Really? I still say tell her now.

Glad you enjoyed you night though - but put it to good use and use that fact as a conversation opener.

Great progress, the night with the girls.
Support from a natal female or two can make a massive difference to your confidence and quality of life .... it does for me.

I think rejennyrated is right and that you need to tell your Mum.