Raven:
Hey, welcome, man!
You have totally come to the right place. We like to think that Susan's Place is rapidly becoming THE transresource on the internet, especially for being an interactive, accepting, intelligent community of gender-variant people of all kinds.
Read the forums, make comments, chat, check out the articles ... anything you want to do and at your own pace. No pressure. We here for you. Get comfortable. You're bound to make some friends. Give it a chance. Good luck!