ok Idk if this is just me but I replyed to an comment on my post then I went and replyed to someone elses post I didn't nothing wrong or anything I don't think and guess what my reply isn't on there it seems some of my replys r disappearing what gives?

I had that happen once or twice. I'm not sure what does it but it always works again later. Maybe it is a misskey or some such but either way, wait a bit and try again making sure  you wait til it shows your post in the thread before you move on.

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