Congrsts on your surgery date. I guess that will be at her new California address.
At this point, hoever, I think it's time to get beyond the verb 'complete'. SRS in no way completes your life. SRS is just another railroad station one passes through on the way through life. Granted, it is a railroad station in a major city, one in which people change trains and head off in new directions to new experiences; it is not the journey's end.
Have you thought about living your new life, living your truth? Will there be new people in your life? New challenges? Are you ready to give back because there were people, organizations that helped you get to this point?
Maybe you will be ready to become a transactivist or a transadvocate, telling your story in public, walking the halls of Congress, or writing that check to this organization or that. Maybe you will attempt the stealth life. Whatever, there will be a new you on a new train, hurtling or rattling down a new track.
Enjoy and keep growing.
Robyn