Hi Kaeli,
You and I share the incredible luck to have supportive spouses. While there is of course pain in sharing this journey, it helps so much to be able to share it. I hope to visit with you often. I notice that you were on the chats. I envy you that - I don't think through my fingers anywhere fast enough to venture there. I'm, I guess not quick to open myself up without too much self-editing.
Anyway, welcome to the forums. It's nice to meet you.
Susan Kay