I have been watching this for a while and a few thoughts.
It sounds like you have a winner in your new boyfriend. Just enjoy him and the times you have together. May they many and long.

Now as to the ex girlfriend. Maybe she is jealous because you became such a beautiful woman. If she starts anything I hope you just slap her face and hard. After all that is what women do.

I have long been a fan of the Golden Girls. It is a shame that most of them are gone now. A friend once told me that I was like Blanche. Well I don't really see it as I don't date. But I did love her character.
I hope you night was a beautiful night with lots of great memories.
Hugs my sister.