So, I went out last Saturday with some friends from work, and I got pretty drunk (heh) and I had this guy hitting on me, and one of the other girls from work. Every time she turned around, he started flirting and hitting on me.

When we went outside for a smoke, and this other girl went inside (while I finished off my smoke) This guy stuck his hand between my legs (Yes... All the way up) and copped himself a feel!

I was drunk enough not to care at the time, but was sober enough to remember.

Strangely enough, you would expect someone in our situations to be pretty pissed off, and then to go home and use a gun on themselves for being violated like that. BUT, I suppose, it's the fact that I look and act and pass as female THAT MUCH that a guy was majorly hitting on me, and copped a feel, not to mention, he didn't / couldn't tell just what it was between my legs. FYI, this guy wasn't drunk.

Now, looking at this from a positive point of view... I pass that much as female, that guys are attracted to me, and want to touch me. It was a shock, but then I sort of got over it quite fast LOL.
I had no intentions of actually hooking up (I don't and never have done that) and I have never had anyone stick their hands on my groin and " feel me up"

Anyone had anything like this happen to them?

That's called sexual assault where I come from, but it's good you weren't hurt, and you're right, that would be kinda cool, to pass to that extent...

Hi Sarah, the most with me was a guy touching my hands and feeling my skin and reallllly insisting to escort me home.

I guess if that happened to me and turned out badly i'd reach for the gun haha!!
He must have been desperately horny  xD

Well, its more or less a perfect pass. I have even walked into a Thai shop here and none of them noticed, yet apparently THEY have an eye for it

I'm jealous, but then I'm not out there yet - LONG way to go.  But, please be careful.  Don't put yourself in a dangerous situation.  A little common sense goes a long way...

That was WAY out of line! Maybe times have changed but if that had happened to me, he would have got a slap that would have put him flat on his a@@ and been heard by the patrons inside.

Do you know how close you came to rape?

I had bouncers there to protect me. And there were like 6 police officers that were near the bar.

Wow girl! I would have not been happy had it been me.

Yeah but again. I was too drunk to care. And sober enough to remember

When it happens the first time you are just so shocked that you don't react.  I know I had a guy grad a boob, and I was sober.

The next guy tried to place his hand on my crotch, and his hand got slapped.

It is sexual assault regardless of where you live.  Next time it happens he may just get a hot cheek from the slap you give him.

Be very very careful, Sarah.  And never go out for a smoke with out a wing woman.

I can kinda see both sides. I don't think something like that would go over too well with me now, but I have had my low points where any kind of compliment was something to cling to.

Yes and it is rather more fun when postop... 

Sorry I'll get my coat... Taxi for Rejennyrated!